Ghosts of Christmases past

@Pose123 (21635)
Canada
December 16, 2007 6:22pm CST
I grew up during the 1940's,a time when Christmas was celebrated quiet different from now. Growing up in a remote corner of of the British Empire, and living in a small isolated community probably made it even more unique. Children of today would have difficulty believing what I'm writing here. No preparations for Christmas began before Christmas Eve, that is of course, except for the purchasing of a few items for the children's stockings, which we knew nothing about. There were no malls to visit with the sights and sounds of Christmas, No Christmas music, coming from every corner. On the afternoon of Christmas Eve my father would go cut a tree, sometimes he would have to make more then one trip before before mother was satisfied. The tree would be left outside until after us children had hung our stockings and gone to bed. This was always a night when it wasn't difficult to get us to go to bed. After all tomorrow was Christmas and we would awake to a beautifully decorated Christmas tree,(at least we thought so) and stockings that had been filled by Santa Claus. I remember that we had a brick chimney with a block that could be removed. I was told that Santa came down the chimney and though that hole. Consequently, I would not go to bed until that brick had been taken out of the chimney, after all this was the big night and I was making sure that the jolly old man didn't miss me. I remember one Christmas Eve, I was probably about 5, dad was having a really difficult time removing the brick, but I was adamant, I wasn't going to bed until that brick was out. They tried to convince me that he would come in another way, but I was having none of it. It must have taken nearly an hour, but I didn't budge from the spot until I knew That Santa could get out of that chimney! One thing hasn't changed, like all children I'd wake early on Christmas morning, and rush downstairs to see what Santa had left. There would be the beautiful Christmas tree, and YES, there was something in my stocking! No gifts under the tree like today, just some things in my stocking. Any kind of fruit or candy was a rarity, in these all but forgotten days, so it only on occasions like Christmas when you would find such things. There was always an apple and an orange in my stocking, also a chocolate bar and some wrapped candy. One Christmas I received a colouring book and some crayons, another Christmas it was a wind-up toy truck. I think that we enjoyed Christmas as much as the kids today who have so much. I wouldn't want to see kids today going without fruit, and such things, but there must be a happy medium between what it was like 60 years ago, and the commercialism of today. Merry Christmas to all who celebrate, and to those who don't, have a great day. Blessings.
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7 responses
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
17 Dec 07
Yes, the main purpose of Christmas is to celebrate our lord's birth and to share love with one another. Christmas has become an expensive holiday instead of celebrating the simple things in life.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
18 Dec 07
Hi Mirita, Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It's true that Christmas has become much too expensive for most people. Blessings.
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@uath13 (8192)
• United States
17 Dec 07
I think I'd prefer your old christmas to the modern ones. At least we wouldn't have to worry about lead paint, strange chemicals & paying off those huge credit card bills. By the time christmas comes nowadays I'm already burnt out of it. There's just too much. I put my tree up yesterday & just knocked off most of my shoping saturday. A few boiled custard rum milkshakes might get me into the mood now.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
18 Dec 07
Hi uath13, Thank you for responding. I believe a lot of it has to do with youth. The children of today will have good memories too.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
17 Dec 07
We were not that well off and we lived in a neighborhood when everyone else got more than we did. We had a natural Christmas tree, and we had to cut it just right to fit inside our living room. Mom used candles at first until getting the regular lights, and we made those loops as well as popcorn and the regular Christmas decorations. We had the stocking filled with candy and fruit, but we also got Christmas presents. Every year my aunts would send me the old English magazines and I would read them. There were quite a lot of serials in them, mostly romances with danger --and the heroine was usually a nurse. I got a weaving set once, and lots of apple blossom cologne sets, plus practical things like clothes. I mean whenever I hear of apple blossom cologne, I cringe.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
18 Dec 07
Hi suspenseful, I want to thank you for responding. It's good to hear other people's stories of the way they celebrated Christmas. I expect the children of today will also have their memories. I guess it has to do with the exuberance of youth. Blessings.
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@cefaz_21 (2596)
• Philippines
17 Dec 07
We were also a poor family and we never had a real green christmas tree in our home untill I bought the one standing there now when I was already working some few years ago.It was our very first beautiful christmas tree and I loved it. Before,mom and dad will only do a home made christmas tree, sometimes it's a stick tied together,sometimes it's small tree trunks and then mom would wrap it with green papers...and seldom that we do have those socks.. But I remember the happiness that was hared within the family, the love of my parents and the relationship. I just hope this kind of relationship we now have will not be taken to us and will be pass on to next generation inspite of the commercialism of christmas today.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
18 Dec 07
Hi cefaz, Thanks for sharing your story. I expect the next generation will have happy memories too. Blessings.
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
17 Dec 07
Hi Pose123! I do believe that Christmas before was much simpler and much heart felt. I believe that most of the children today rely on material things for happiness and I can't blame them because of too much commercialism today. It is sad but that is how it is now. To some children, I guess these are the lucky ones, who were brought up to know the true meaning of Christmas. It is about the savior who was born, it is about love, it is about salvation. In our family, we try very hard to instill in the younger ones that Christmas is not all about gifts and how expensive the gift one will receive but it is about togetherness, about family and about love and sharing. We try very hard but to be honest with you, I do hear them when they are alone on what kind of gift they want to receive on christmas. haha.. I think children are not just content on candies or chocolates but on what is being seen in the tv. Sad but true, christmas is so commercialized. However, this wouldn't hinder me or my family in celebrating christmas because as we have always believed, Christmas is still all about family, about love and togetherness. Maybe when the children will grow older, they will know the meaning of Christmas for themselves. Right now, they are just happy to have gifts from people who loves them. Just my thoughts. take care and have a nice day! Merry Christmas! :)
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
18 Dec 07
Hi faith, Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and I do agree with you. Blessings.
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@alamode (3071)
• United States
17 Dec 07
Growing up, we were 6 kids, and Pop wasn't always working. We got the necessaries for Christmas, like socks and underwear, and one good present. One year I didn't get the good one, and figured I'd just been too naughty... I had a very bad day! Then about 6 p.m. Mom discovered a box hidden behind the tree... of course it was mine, and it was the most beautiful bride doll imaginable! Most of our favorite gifts, however, came from Gramma Ruby, our Mom's mom... she would make things for us, and they were always great! The 2 favorites were the Humpty Dumpty pajama pillows, and the fully-jointed cloth dolls with knotted yarn hair. She was meticulous in her workmanship and detail... I wish I still had them! She inspired me so much that I've been striving my whole life to spread the love the way she did. Happy, happy Christmas, pose, to you and your family. Thanks for helping me to retrieve more of my memories.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
18 Dec 07
Hi alamode, Thanks for sharing your memories. Blessings.
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• Philippines
18 Dec 07
i used to have that kind of christmas then. Christmas eve was indeed the hardest night to go to sleep because I was so excited , then at 5 yrs old, with catching Santa putting something on my stocking .... well of course i caught him once only to be disappointed that there no real Santa after all... and the next christmas eve that came were like pretending i was asleep, then wait till something was placed in my stocking... well with my siblings now, no stocking anymore, they just would simply tell me what they want and perhaps try to stretch my budget for the gifts :-)
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
18 Dec 07
Hi bong_domingo, Thank you for sharing you story. Blessings.