Should I popose my boyfriend ?

China
December 16, 2007 9:06pm CST
When I saw a coupole company wiht their kids , i am very pleased and i also hope to own this happyness. But i know my bf well , he won't popose me romanticly, I like romance! So i think if i should take action personally to let my popose more romantic?
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
18 Dec 07
Nothing wrong with the thought or attempt. Especially if you are the one who likes romance and wants to see it happen. In terms of life and steps of the relationship however, you have to be rational about this whole step though. You both need to face what this kind of committment implies and what is required from the both of you to make it work. Other than that, I wish you luck with your proposal and happiness for you both.
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• China
17 Dec 07
Be yourself!Be romantic!I love romantic too!
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
17 Dec 07
If you are comfortable enough you can. Also if your Bf is in love to you equally there is no problem I think. so go ahead with your ideas. I think it will be great.
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• India
17 Dec 07
Hi Cindy405777! That sounds wonderful! I do not see why you should not propose. I think you should listen to your heart and do what it says.
@nkhanna (922)
• India
17 Dec 07
i think there is no harm in you propsoing your boyfriend.it was oldy things when only guys used to propose.many a times its found that guys who show others that they are very serious kings of and are not at all romantic are considered to be very much romantic.however you propose him quickly so that you can settle for your marriage and then can plan for your babies as you want.i think one should not prolong in getting married if there is a right match since its really difficult ot find a right match nowadays.
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@jr_sci (16)
• India
17 Dec 07
It is a wonderful experience to propose someone you love. I have gone through this before. Actually my girlfriend told me that she had an crush on me. I also had an crush on her. So I proposed her, "May my children have the pleasure to call you mom?"
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
18 Dec 07
I think there is no wrong in proposing him if you really love him. I think some boys are very shy and will not show their feeling. I think you should make the first step. Most probably he might be in love with you and might be waiting for you to make the first step. I believe a woman can change lots of things in a man. I think you can make him more romantic by talking to him. A person who is in real love with his or her lover will do everything he or she wanted. I think you will be able to change him to some extend in being romantic. Go for him if you really love him.
• India
18 Dec 07
dnt think just propose him :)
@jona06 (78)
18 Dec 07
friend....just try to propose.... there's no harm in trying right???
• United States
17 Dec 07
I say go for it! My husband was kind of shy - not sure if he really ever proposed to me or not now that I think about it. I bought him a ring and gave it to him in front of his family. He said yes :)
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• United States
17 Dec 07
I say go for it! My husband was kind of shy - not sure if he really ever proposed to me or not now that I think about it. I bought him a ring and gave it to him in front of his family. He said yes :)
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• Malaysia
17 Dec 07
I am a guy. So I sometimes feel an uncertainty to think wheter I should propose her right now, or later on, will she be ready, will she that and this. But I think, that's nothing wrong for the woman to start first. The important mind set that we must have is don't be a passive lover. Sometimes, we guys feel so comfortable with our girl that we forget to be that sensible and romantic. You should start the spark and we will boost up... Maybe.. Every man has their own style,etc. So, my suggestion. Why don't you trick him to propose you. Give him a feeling that if he not doing it right now, he'll rgret it or he'll loose you...But don't play too hard... Good luck!
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