past love?

Philippines
December 18, 2007 10:51am CST
why am i hurt this much? dont i deserve to be happy? ghee .. love .. love . . love all this because of love.. it is so devastating thinking that we got over from our past relationship but then later realized that we havent get over them and whats more painful is when we reminisce the times when we were together, the places, the food and almost everything reminds us of that person. just like what happened to me. i thought i was over him. thats what i thought but then i was wrong and i miss him so badly
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7 responses
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
YEAH!i know that feeling about your past love.its because i already experience that, my past boy friend make me cry,he gives me a lots of problems and heart aches but i still love him,even until now i can say that i really love him and i cant forget him even he gives me a lots of pain in my whole life, maybe because hes my first and last love ever in my life.even i have a new boy friend now i still love my past boy friend and i cant help my self to think for him. I don't know why. reanicah
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• Philippines
20 Dec 07
yeah! thanks for your good advice ,i hope that someday ill give my whole trust and love to him. and i want to give him a chance to prove to me that he deserve to be happy with me.have a nice day and god bless. reanicah
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
tenchoo for respondingc".) i understand but if your already in that situation, pls dont deprive yourself on falling to your new boyfriend who knows hes way better than your ex. though i cant relate much on having a new guy around coz im not yet engage on a new rel right now. but as possible give your new guy a chance to prove himself to be love by you ok c".)
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@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
You know gurl I can understand you much because Ive been also to a sort of situation.... Yes somehow we think that those things are done.... that we have overcome it already but the real thing is we are still conquered by it! are you still meeting that guy? People cant forget someone if they are still meeting each other.. You know gurl, the best thing to do to cast him off in you is let yourself suffer now... accept that you are hurt... dont try to show that you are ok.... let yourself exercise the pain so that time helps you heal it.... tell youe closest kin about it... Let them help you solve it! Ant trust yourself that you can make it...
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• Philippines
19 Dec 07
tencho0 for responding c".) i told my friends about it they are helping me cope up but then the problem is with me coz no matter how hard i try to forget him or cast him off my senses my thoughts would always hit me with the memories and it hurts and i know i cant move on coz everytime a new love interest come i kept on comparing that person to my past love. humph :C im sorry if im too weak. i just hate it how my relationship failed with that guy.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
19 Dec 07
I must sayu you are 200% right. We are hurt when that person we trusted so much ditch us. It is very hard to get over that broken realtionship. It is really hard to forget those happy moments shared together. It may be that at that moment you hate and like to forget that person. But everytime you end up remembering that person.
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• Philippines
19 Dec 07
thank you for responding c".) yup your right.. i strongly agree :) .. this is what happens when we fall.. humph.. sad story c".) loving is so great but the consequence is so fatal haaiizz.. love c".)
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
18 Dec 07
ahhhh.. that was me 5 years ago. it is really difficult to let go of someone who has become part of us. and i told myself that i did not want to undergo the same experience again. i vow that a relationship is as good as the last one. and there is always an effort to make my relationship last and work. as they say, love is a decision. and you can always decide either way, to let go or hold on. past love, as you put it, is better to be let go.
• Philippines
18 Dec 07
thank u for responding. but anyway, i dont know how to let go. theres always this tag that reminds me of him. songs, topics, restaurants and stuff like those reminds me of him especially this particular song . humph.. help
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• China
19 Dec 07
it can happen to everyone,it doesn't matter to you.nothing is impossible.time could say it.
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• Philippines
19 Dec 07
thank u for respondingc".) yep ur also right only time could tell c".)
@lucikas (12)
• Lithuania
19 Dec 07
All this because of love cauze people are not created to be alone. We can't feel real harmony without having a man behind you. This is a reality.
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• Philippines
19 Dec 07
yep gez your right but its not that alone, its the relationship itself c".)
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
19 Dec 07
This is normal when we are in closely in contact with our emotions and this is one of the most common weakness of the human heart. When Our relationships fail we get so affected, we get so emotional and too affected. This stage in our emotional crisis will fade and we will be able to get back to our knees and continue moving on and living again. I wish you well and hope you will soon get back to your senses.
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• Philippines
19 Dec 07
thank you for responding zel..c".) .. i do hope i will be back to my old self but as of the moment im still coping up.. i just hope mr. right will be here and save me from this insanity -wink- lolz.. c".)
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