If you're pregnant and your 16 years old..

I dont know what I would do unless I was in the postion, which I am not. HOwever I can tell you what my 17 year old cousin did and his girlfriend. They have known now for 3 almost for months now, and they are going to keep the baby and when they are able to they will get married. But they just now told their parents because she is starting to show. My Aunt was stunned and shocked because he was the good kid. But I dont think anybody should force somebody to have an abortion. OH this is interesting since you brought this up, because yesterday was when my aunt found out that she is going to be a grandma at 36 years old and her daughter will be an aunt at 6.

I was "just" 16, when I became pregnant, I was also 16 when I was single, and having my baby. I have so many stories I could tell here. I have done it so many times. My boyfriend, at the time,,,,,husband now, denied her. Just like on the talk shows.I can tell you anything you would like to know. The ups and downs of being alone, having a baby, as a child. I have been there and overcome it. I finally married my childs father and had two more children. Teenage pregnancy is one of the hardest things a girl can go through. Your friends whom you always trust everything in, just don't understand what you are going through. You feel completely alone. Like you have no one you can truely trust. Pregnancy takes alot of growing up, alot of trust, and most of all, belief in yourself! That was the only thing that got me through.

I was 16 when i had my first her dad wanted me to have an abortion he was one of the many that i had to fight with, but all I can say is that I won and the beautiful little girl is now 15. so no i would not let him reflect on my decision.