How do you deal with the people who always have the tendency to rub
By Bala
@balasri (26537)
India
7 responses
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Dec 07
oh people still do that!! just joking, infact ppl do that more often these days. Only thing is that they do it in a more polished way. lol..
What do I do? (Can't remember any of late though) I think, I would simply brush them off and ignore them blatantly. Paying them off with the same coin is just not in my conscience. I think, they get the message thus.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Dec 07
Yes, brushing off is the best and sure shot repartite, I guess.
Thanks Bala. I will check the helim comment.

@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
19 Dec 07
I try to be cool with those..who rub on the wrong side...and gradually try to avoid them.
I do not try to rub others on the wrong side (I may do it inadvertently or unknowlingly) so I expect the same from others.

@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
19 Dec 07
Throw things at them! I am very placid guy although I am also quite sensitive too, I try not to let things get to me, I shrug them off, but certain people just really irritate the hell out of me, like my ex! And it was through pure frustration that I retaliated! I am not like that usually, takes a lot to really upset me, we were so incompatible!
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
19 Dec 07
I turn so that person can rub me on the right side. ha ha ha ha
OK...fine. Real answer, I kill them with kindness. And in the most recent case when I did that, the man asked me out! LOL Poor guy, I didn't know he stuttered when he was trying to get courage to ask a woman out! And then to be shot down. :( I feel bad for him. LOL
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
20 Dec 07
I try my best to deal wit htem in the right way, so that I may grow and learn from the experience. I believe that these kind of people are sent in our lives purposely by God. They are in our lives for a time and we are not able to avoid them,
When we learn the lesson that God has for us, then and only then do they move on or we move on. I am in a situation like that right now and I am hoping that either I or this person will be moving on soon and that I have learned the lesson that God wanted me to learn.
I know that one of the things that God has been working with me on in the last few years is that when people rub me the wrong way, I am to learn to hold my peace, ignore them, and allow him to fight my battle. I believe that it is pride that causes me to want to fight back.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
19 Dec 07
There are quite a few Billion People living on this Planet. If one of them rubs me the wrong way I'll just choose another to interact with. I'll be friendly with the "wrong way rubber," but will stay away from that person as much as I can.
@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
19 Dec 07
I ignore them and think to myself,i am better than they are and can act my age instead of getting on someones bad side.I never try to do this,i know when to be quiet,mind my own business and act grown up.If its to the point of them never stopping and always rubbing me the wrong way,i stay away from them by any means possible even ending a friendship if thats the way its suppose to be.
Peanutjar:)







