We find this place to have fun have mock fights and word duels.

What's wrong with them is that they aren't here to have fun, but rather have agendas. The ones I can think of that are most vicious are the ones who are determined to actually change people's minds on things... and can't deal with it when we don't all just let them brainwash us. :P Personally I don't get bent on this kind of stuff, though I do occasionally get upset when I see people spewing too much hate or intolerance.

Bala, ppl tend to vent out all their pent up grudges, grievances and complaints, which they cannot in real life. That's the beauty of this place! myLot is like 'neelkanth, absorbing all our blues. And, there ofcourse are ppl who are generally jittery even with simplest of issues and some think they are the big boss of all and have the right to refute, counsel and say the final word even at the risk of being tagged know-it-all. lol.. Perhaps ppl like you, and if you allow me to take my name, do the balancing act.