Would you rather DIE?

Definitely not. I am the eternal optimist and no matter what the situation I always believe things will get better.

I would say that it depends upon the situation, there are actually times which you tend to feel that life is meaningless already because you are not with the one that you love. Love and life has its own purpose, usually people tend to abide with the idea that they can't go on living when their loved ones leave them behind. It is up to you how you value your life and how you deal with the situation. I really don't want to waste my life that God has given to me and it is bad if you just want to die, try to enjoy life to the fullest while you still can. Have a great time my dear friend and cherish your life to the fullest. More blessings for you and your family as well. ^_^

Good question. I guess it would depend on if it were in vain. If it were just b/c he wanted to be w/ someone else...definitely not! My life will gone, I will move on and I will eventually be happy again. I would sacrifice myself for my Love though. If the Lord came to me and said "you need to die or leave your love in order for your Love to live and fullfill his purpose for me..." and I knew that he would take care of our babies and all that then, yes I would rather die than be with my love! did that make any sense? LOL

This would be a definite no. I have loved and lost and still survived. I would never let another person define me to the point that I would choose to not go on living if I could no longer be with them. If that wasn't enough I also have 4 children who depend on me for everything. Their dependence on me has gotten me through some of the hardest times in my life this past decade. I guess in short if someone truly felt their life wasn't worth living without the one they loved then they haven't really lived anyway.