a kiss to end a relationship ??

@unuzzz (1273)
Indonesia
December 22, 2007 11:21am CST
is this a good way or a bad way ?? will the kiss make you harder to move on ?? this is my good friend's experience, which happened last night he decided to break up his relationship with his girl after he put great admiration on her, for almost 3 years i think, he finally got her attention my friend had been really happy and filled his days with love for the girl but the relationship only last for 2 months i cannot write the details here, one thing can't keep them being together on that night, my friend share everything with me he said that before he left his girl's house, he asked for one last kiss to girl before he walked away and after the kiss, both cried this would just make everything harder right ?? share with me ^^ thanks.. your opinions will help my friend
7 responses
zhwbeast
@zhwbeast (326)
• China
23 Dec 07
I think it's a good way to end the sensation of love for your friend.I can learn that your friend was love her for a long time,even now he also love the girl but must break it for a untolded reason. Although just last two manthes,but they had in love with each other.And by the last kiss,they can memory the days they together.Because they were both cried,it means they love each other at least.The kiss will bring them into thinking about the reason of break up and even more will find the problem if possible.It often saves passage of love.
unuzzz
@unuzzz (1273)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 08
hi zhwbeast hahaaa, your opinion really compatible with the situations here well, the kiss actually really help i think there are some hopes that both of them will be hooked up again LOL well i just wish the best for both of them thank you for caring zhwbeast have a nice day ^^
zhwbeast
@zhwbeast (326)
• China
3 Jan 08
Yes, I think there also has love between,because one of my college roommates had the same aituation and the kiss brought them into love second time. thanks for your topic.
maximax8
@maximax8 (31042)
• United Kingdom
23 Dec 07
The fact that they both cried after their kiss means that they both felt emotional. They might have felt very sad and disappointed with the situation. Kissing might have left some confusion whether their relationship was really over or not. However if two people are both sure their relationship is over and they feel non emotional and amicable then a kiss between them would be fine. It might be a way of saying goodbye because they will never see each other again. This may be to do with a geographical distance.
unuzzz
@unuzzz (1273)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 08
hi maximax8 well guess what, the distance between each houses is just 10 minutes driving hahaaa LOL that just make everything unsuitable right ?? hahaaa :P i believe both of them are very emotional and amicable at that time, i also said to my friend that the kissing was not right for both of them i said that it'll only become a barrier on their future steps thanks anyway for caring maximax8 ^^ really appreciate it, have a nice day..
Brian
@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
23 Dec 07
It depends whether the relationship ending is an amicable one, what I mean is if you leave on good terms and decide to stay friends then a kiss between friends is good and acceptable, however if you are not to see them again then a kiss wouldn't be a way to end it, sometimes it's best just to turn around and walk off leaving them and your past behind you, it's kinder, easier and simpler that way.
unuzzz
@unuzzz (1273)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 08
hi wolfie34 well hard to say, if we wish to become friend after that, aren't the last kiss will only become a burden ? i think it'll keep the feelings as lovers instead of friends but who knows your opinion is appropriate ^^ thanks for caring wolfie34 have a nice day..
Vivianh
@Vivianh (331)
• China
23 Dec 07
I think it's a good way .whatever they loved each other and the kiss is just a word of goodbye .they have been together and that's great memory.
unuzzz
@unuzzz (1273)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 08
hi Vivianh hmm, looks like we have a different opinion but i agree with the great memory it's something we need to treasure thanks for caring Vivianh have a nice day.. ^^
asgtswife04
@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
23 Dec 07
I think when breaking up, a kiss to finish it off is a really bad idea. It just reminds the person of those passionate moments. that is just my opinion though. If i had a break up, which i'm married, but still....i wouldn't want to have that last kiss goodbye. I would just want it ended and leave it at that. That is just how I am though. God bless
unuzzz
@unuzzz (1273)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 08
hi asgtswife04 i also thought that it's a bad way i don't think kissing is for good bye we should keep it for something nice anyway, thanks for responding asgtswife04 cheers.. ^^
shichunhua
@shichunhua (6)
• China
23 Dec 07
This a good way!
unuzzz
@unuzzz (1273)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 08
thank for caring shichunhua ^^
kimberlylynn
@kimberlylynn (978)
• United States
23 Dec 07
I think that just added a sense of romance to it, like you would see in a movie. We had that last kiss, and never saw each other again! I guess it's beter than a slap or some cussing! I might be upset for a while, but later when I looked back on it I think it wouldn't seem so bad, like he did care but just couldn't make it work.
unuzzz
@unuzzz (1273)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 08
hi kimberlylynn hahaaa, like a movie ?? i totally agree with you the first time he shared the story, i laughed hard and i teased him a little by saying whether he acted as he was making a movie scene that is so drama called i said and he also laughed that time well i don't think to end it with a kiss there are many ways to have a good ending instead of kissing i'll always memorize it, although i had a short memory :P thanks for responding kimberlylynn cheers.. ^^