Infidelity of Spouse,Almost everyone suffers at one stage or another during life

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One of the most important,personnel,emotional,confidential,least talked about fact of human life is that Almost everyone suffers from Infidelity of spouse at one stage or another during life. This can be broadly divided into following categories and sub-categories: 1.Problems arising due to before marriage intimate affairs getting exposed after marriage by spouse. 2.Development of unacceptable relarions/affairs with third,person other than spouse.This really means EXTRA-MARITAL AFFAIRS. After studing,waiting & watching,interviewing,helping,analysing,several things were revealed which need open discussion.Some important facts and situations are 1.Pre-marital affairs getting exposed after marriage. 2.Continuation of such affairs after marriage with or without the knowledge of spouse. 3.Putting an end to such affairs after marriage. Developing extra/post-marital affairs. The responses and reactions to such affairs after geting exposed include: 1.Throwing abuses. 2.Developing relations with someone after knowing about spouse's in order to take revenge or with a mental set up of paying back in the same coin. 3.Separation without divorce. 4.Separation after divorce. 5.Marring some else after divorce. 6.Remaining single after divorce. 7.Re-marring the old spouse after patch up and laying certain conditions of sincereity. 8.Depression and development of anxiety and serious psychological problems. 9.Developing Inferiority complex. 10.Suicide or murder in rare cases. What-so-ever may be the reason and situation one most important negative effect of all this is: "KIDS SUFFER WITHOUT ANY REASON AND FAULT OF THEIR OWN". Some of the the best solutions are: 1.Give your kids TOP PRIORITY before acting upon,deciding and doing anything. 2.Increase tolerance as much as you can but upto a limit.Give some chances to spouse for rectification of the problem and puting and end to every controversy. 3.Pray to Almighty: "O' My GOD Give Me The Will And Power To Change The Things That I Can Change,And,Tolerance To Acept The Things I Cannot Change". Comments are welcomed.To be concluded