Is it okay for a teenage girl to wear micro mini?

@ajithlal (14716)
India
December 27, 2007 9:07pm CST
Recently, I heard a teenage girl who just was debating with her parents. She was wearing a sleeveless low cut blouse and micro mini skirt. Her parents compained about her dress code and she replied what the problem with them and the world has changed. She stated that her boyfriend loves her in these dresses. I would like to know is it okay for her especially she is a teenager to wear low cut blouse and micro mini skirts with considering her parents? I would also like to know if these type of love her boyfriend has for her is real? Was she hurting her parents by talking like that?
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13 responses
• United States
29 Dec 07
Well first off how old is this girl?15 or 17-18? if she is 18 she is an adult and should be able to wear what she wants,however if she is younger than that she should abide by her parents rules. If her boyfriends really loves her he would not care what she wore.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
29 Dec 07
She is 17 years old. Well if I have a girl friend, I would never allow my girl friend to reveal her body flesh to others. I think she was revealing too much.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
15 Nov 12
I am not in an opinion that young girls should reveal their body too much. I think people might differ in this opinion.
31 Dec 07
Whoa. You'd never allow a girlfriend to reveal her "body flesh"? What other kind of "flesh" does she have? Isn't all "flesh" "body flesh"? All mine is. BTW, Hi Meriem.
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• United States
28 Dec 07
Her parents have every right to complain if their teen daughter looks like a wh0re. And even more right to complain if the little girl is doing it b/c the boyfriend likes it. Like it or not, that little girl lives with her parents, under her parents' roof and has to live by their rules. If she wants to emancipate herself and move out on her own, she can do as she pleases. Until then, she is SOL.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
16 Oct 12
I also think that parents should control the girls.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
10 Dec 12
I think some parents gives lots of freedom and some people takes advantage of these freedom.
@msqtech (15074)
• United States
28 Dec 07
She gets to express herself but the child need listen to her parents in the end. She doesnt have the right to go against their wishes. She should be respectful of them and listen to their more reasonable requests of her.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
30 Sep 12
I also think that children should respect their parents and should listen to them.
@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
28 Dec 07
Mom and Dad need to take control - their house, their rules. If they are buying her clothing, then they need to have some say.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
29 Sep 12
I also think that parents should be careful when they buy clothes for the young ones.
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@Modestah (11179)
• United States
31 Dec 07
apparently the problem has not changed. so her boyfriend likes her looking like that - why? because it tempts him to sin? because it tempts others to sin when they look at her? he loves her looking immodest and impure? I would question what good he is for her. she has also lost respect that she should have for her parents .
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
31 Dec 07
I think most probably he does not really love her. I think true love does not look for the body, but the person.
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@skinnychick (6905)
• United States
28 Dec 07
Sounds like her boyfriend just maybe loves her in a mini. My daughter when she gets older can not even think about it. Kids are kids and they want to wear certain things but parents need to put their foot down and just say no. It isn't that hard, and their kids will really thank them for it later.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
14 Sep 12
I also think that kids should not wear micro minis.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
19 Feb 13
I think mostly the kids and teenage girls should follow at least good dress codes and they should be happy that they are looking good in proper clothes.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
5 Jan 08
For me unfortunately, you see a lot of this anymore. The kids just tend to think their parents are Old Fashioned, and should leave them alone, when in reality, they usually are just only hurting themselves. When a girl dresses this way, Yes, it is a turn on for her boyfriend, and who really knows if the boyfriend wants her for her, or for the way she dresses, etc. I feel that unless you instill a Christian background of some sort and some Morals and principles in your childrens lives when they are young, then you might have a chance. Waiting until the day comes to see what they then do could be too late. But more and more, you see even good Christian homes having these issues as well. Makes me sort of glad that I did have Miscarriages so I would not have to deal and be faces with these same types of issues as well.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
10 Jan 08
Yes, and her parents will be the ones she runs to when she finds out that nice boys don't respect girls who let it all hang out. This teenage girl should wear what her parents tell her to wear, for as Judge Judy says, they own the air she breathes.
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@Jolsn4 (19)
• United States
28 Dec 07
I think it is important to let a teenager express themselves, its a part of personal growing; however, every parent must teach them that flaunting their body around will only attract people who wish to do harm. And if her boyfriend really loved her he would not care what she wore. I am not really sure she is hurting her parents, just showing them she still has life lessons to learn
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
29 Dec 07
I think her boyfriend cares more of her flesh than her.
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@SukiSmiles (1991)
• United States
6 Jan 08
Obviously this girl's boyfriend only has one thing on his mind, and I sure would leave my daughter alone with him. It also seems that the girl has been allowed to wear clothes like this before or why would she be wearing them now? My daughter is only 8, but we have already teaching her items that a acceptable to wear. Of course the teenager could be rebelling as well. Somehow she never learned to respect her parents or just figured she could get away with what she was saying because she was out in public. She was definitely hurting her parents.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
20 Dec 12
I think now the cruel men are more than innocent so the teenage girl should not wear the micro mini she can wear the jeans. Because some men attract on her girls because of their cloths. Women can wear the cut blouse because sari is supporting it. This is my opinion.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
26 Dec 12
I also think that some people get attracted because of the clothes they are wearing.
• India
12 Dec 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about this, but most of the teen age girls in this modern world are in this sort, they are interested in expressing their beauty and wish to get admiration from others based on their beauty. They don't know they are spoiling themselves indirectly, i feel pity for the parents. It is really hard to deal with this kind of adamant daughters
• Philippines
12 Dec 12
today's generation is really different but for a teenager who's wearing a mini micro skirt?oh c'mmon, it is not good and the hell with that fool boyfriend! boyfriends should protect and respect their girlfriends. we all know that there so many fool and maniac guys out there and a girl who wears sexy clothes will attract them that's why the parents worry so much. and for that teenager girl, if you do not want to be sexually harassed by fool men please respect yourself and wear clothes that are appropriate for your age. if you want to be respected, make sure you respect yourself first. you do not know the ways of the world, my dear.