How did he reaxt when you told him you where pregnant?

Canada
January 1, 2008 12:54am CST
I recently found out I am pregnant and when I told my bf he didn't taje it too well. He wants to get rid of the baby, but I want to keep it. ANyone have the same issues? what happened? Anything from guys here, did you change your mind later on and why?
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@nicolecab (923)
• United States
2 Jan 08
When I first told my husband that I was pregant he was in shock and just kept saying what are we going to do. by the next day he was telling everyone that he saw weather he knew them or not that he was going to be a father. We both against getting an abortion or giving the baby away from the start and he knew that it would never be an option to me. Good Luck I hope he comes around soon.
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
1 Jan 08
I am sorry that your boyfriend doesn't support you in wanting to keep the baby. Maybe he just has some fears about becoming a father and doesn't know how to handle the situation. Hopefully this will change by the time you have the baby. My husband would be thrilled if I told him I was pregnant (again). He wants me to have one more baby (preferably a little girl this time) and he keeps hoping month after month that I am pregnant. But it hasn't happened...yet.
@Ngippol (567)
• Philippines
1 Jan 08
If you are married, men don't do that to their baby. It is only when the baby is a product of their lust being unwed. It's a good thing for you to keep the baby. A sin is not to be covered by another sin. My suggestion for you is to learn your lessons. Respect yourself!
• Philippines
1 Jan 08
I have a friend who found herself pregnant. The situation is the other way around though, my friend didn't want to keep the baby but the boyfriend wanted them to get married and have the family. My friend decided to abort the baby.. now they're not a couple anymore and eventually are not friends. So what's your decision? How would you deal with your situation? Hope you'll make the right decision!
@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
1 Jan 08
my son is now 12 .when i was pregnant with him my ex wanted me to have an abortion as well.i kept my baby.12 years on my ex absolutely adores his son and he was is world.my ex has recently past away which has devasted my son.what i am saying is that things can turn out for the best.if you feel you want to keep your baby ,keep your baby,things will work out in the end,and if your boyfriend does not want to be part of this childs life,that is his problem,just move on with your own life and enjoy your baby.cheers sue