Ever had a friend that you could really confide in

United States
January 2, 2008 2:04am CST
Have you? I have one, not including my husband. I'm talking about someone you aren't related too but wish they were your brother or sister. I have one. She is what I consider my best friend and wish we where sisters. I can tell her anything and she doesn't judge me. She is always honest with me and we always work through our problems. She use to live close by, but now she lives a couple states away. With life being the way it is, I don't get to talk to her as much as I use to. And I miss talking to her. I miss it when we use to hang out and laugh about nothing and everything for hours at a time. She is always there for me when I need her and I would like to think I am there for her. At least I only hope I am as good of a friend to her as she is to me. She's the only true friend I have that I'm not related to. I miss her being around. I know I sound selfish and I don't mean to. I just miss her.
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@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
5 Jan 08
I have a wonderful friend too. We lost our way for awhile, but we are back on track. My friend lives a few hours away and it's not easy sometimes, because I miss her so much. She is also like the sister I never had, but always wanted. I miss talking to my girlfriend every day, but it's understandable having kids, life and so on. It stinks though because we have been so close. I am sure your friend knows all that you feel for her and she is very lucky to have such a wonderful person such as you in her life. I have a feeling you will be seeing her very soon! ;)
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• United States
5 Jan 08
Thank you! I know how you feel! I'm pretty sure your friend knows how you feel and feels the same way! I hope I do get to see her real soon! It's been too long since we've been able to hang out! I truly miss that! I miss having her around!
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• United States
5 Jan 08
It is hard when friends move away. I understand your situation of being a mititary wife and having to move alot. I'm sure your friend does too. You get to see so much of the world as well and that has to be pretty cool. I don't tell my friend how much I miss her or cherrish her friendship enough either. Like you, I'm sure she knows. She is very dear to me!
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
5 Jan 08
It's hard having friends that you love so dearly move away. I know that too well. You know my husband is in the military so it often takes us further away than I would like from friends and family. I don't tell my dearest friend that I miss her and how I value her friendship often enough. I have been pretty bad about that! I am sure she knows though. Take care!
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@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
2 Jan 08
I have. I'm so lucky to have many confidantes around me. 2 of my roommates are very secretive with my secrets. And my classmate in college was also my confidant until now. They are very good friends indeed.
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• United States
2 Jan 08
It's great to have friends like that! Thank you!