What do you do if your husband accuses you of cheating?

I am not married as yet, but my fiance and I have been engaged for several months. First off, he is your husband and if he doesn't believe that you are not cheating on him and insists on bothering you about it, then obviously he has a problem with trust. And him saying "ok, I believe you" after you told him for the one millionth time that there is nothing going on, that does not mean that he does believe you. Often times, the first inclination of being cheated on is usually because it's true, but since you said that you are not cheating on your husband then he must have something else bothering him. How long have you two been married? Do you have issues with trust in the marriage? Has he had bad relationships in the past? Is he afraid that you would be unfaithful? You have a lot to consider so if I were you, I would sit down with my husband and have a really long talk. Hope everything works out. Be blessed and always positive.

Ohh I underwent such situation with my ex-boyfriend. He would nag every time I fail pick up the phone right away or not tell him an hour before where I am going to and if I did ask his permission i would have to enumerate who I am with and he would talk to that person to confirm if what I was saying is true. I really felt caged and the reason he did that because he was afraid that i would cheat on him. We would be fighting just because of those small things. I did tell him to trust me and stop thinking that i would cheat because it has not cross my mind at all. I also told him not to attract such negativity because one day it might happen and it did sadly. I was so fed up with that situation, we had a big fight because I left the phone and he did no believe me. He really insisted that I did on purpose and i was with someone else. Out of anger I went to a bar had fun with friends and met this nice guy. I broke it up with my ex-boyfriend and stayed with my guy. My advice would be make it work and be patient until it lasts. Do whatever you can to save the relationship but if he will not change his ways. Then find someone else who would trust you. Someone better will always come your way and love you how you are supposed to be loved.

Just speaking from experience here, but when my first husband began accusing me of cheating, it turned out the woman he had an affair with had been contacting him telling him to come see the child they created. Guilty conscience. I think it was his way of trying to take the focus off of the fact that he had cheated, and before I found out, he started the accusations, as if he were trying to convince himself that I was cheating so it could justify what he had done. Keep in mind here, his affair was just short of one year after our marriage, our son was only a few months old. The interesting thing here is that although I had been told by others that he had cheated, I chose not to believe them, I remained faithful to him. Then, nearly 3 years later, after the birth of our second child, I found out about his affair. I guess maybe you should sit down and talk to him or seek counseling. Maybe he just has trust issues, maybe he has cheated, maybe it's something you have said or done that he has misconstrued. either way, you guys need to talk about it. Good luck!!

HAve confrontation with him. Ask him if he wants to be in your life. Just tell him that you cannot take his cheating anymore. You deserve to be happy. If you have kids, make them go with you. TAke care of them.