have you felt this?

yes, there was this guy that i used to love for years but i don't feel that he loves me too, he says he loves me and that he want to spend his lifetime with me, but that's just his words...coz he never let me feel it and in fact, he disappears for no reason at all....and come back when i already have a boyfriend, to say that he still wants me and that he still want to keep his promise...but how could it be? i already have a boyfriend which i am sure loves me so much...unlike him that always disappear when i need him....and so i tried to forget him but i couldn't, i erased all his numbers and don't text or call him, but he still remains in my heart....

Nope, sometimes we need also to understand the person we care, cuz sometimes they are not in the mode to chat with us. Check my blog: http://oliverdt.blogspot.com

If you care about someone you do things for them because of it. If they continually reject you then you have to start considering the possibility that this person is not the one for you. Its ok to keep trying for a while, but if they don't return the caring for an extended period of time, your caring starts to become self-loathing.