Don't just rely on hot babes! Men can date any woman!
By darkangel079
@darkangel079 (1488)
United States
January 2, 2008 4:39pm CST
I don't consider myself an attractive guy - I mean I'm no Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise - nor do I plan to be one either. I've dated women - those who they consider hotties, dated cute ones and average ones as well. I've had different experiences from all three types - and the truth is I consider cute ones and average ones more than what they call hotties.
I prefer cute ones and average ones because for one they are down to earth. These are the women that work on their careers, occupations, future, they are funny and outgoing. That's why I say it is more sexy when a woman has an inner beauty.
And when I mean hotties - These are the type that know what's coming to them because they already know. They know what you're going to say to them. They know how to take advantage and they will have you falling on them which they will make you do anything just because of how desperate you are of wanting to be with them and wanting to get in their pants.
Now not all hotties are like this though - because even those that are really gorgeous and beautiful really want to meet and find the right man. It's the false reality that men always think just because there are women that look like a Eva Mendes or Christina Aguilera they hard to approach and these men lose confidence that they will be turned down by them.
For many years men have battled with outward looks - don't they? Obviously true! But where do you go just staring and all you have to do is go up to a woman and start a conversation. Obviously dirty talk and those that over-do compliments get you no where. Even guys that do the "When Flirting Has Gone Wrong!" has had their bad moments. What about those guys who become tongue tied, lack confidence and don't even know what to say? Kind of like watching Will Smith's movie Hitch which explains it.
If those that say the Bible is Truth - well here's the Truth about a matter of dating women - be yourself, have confidence, be funny, learn how to open any type of conversation, learn to be a good listener, learn to put a woman first, open doors for her, you call the shots, be in command and the leader but in a proper and good way. It doesn't hurt to make fun or tease a woman either - Women love humor and love to feel special. Realize that the fact is women are in need - They want to feel loved, special and knowing that their man is there for them no matter what. Women hate insecurities so stop being a wuss!
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@piatlocke23 (147)
• Philippines
26 Jan 08
You have a very good point here darkangel. I know I am cute and consider myself beautiful and you're funny with some of the things you say here. Honestly I don't like too much compliments either and I don't like bad talk from men. I like the way you think and you are right about we do hate insecurities if men have them - yeah i do find that annoying.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
3 Jan 08
thank you for this discussion. as a man, i am glad i read this one. i am single and dating women too. but i don't categorize women as cute, hotties, or ordinary. i like to go out with women who could carry a good discussion. because for me, date is about conversation and discussion.



