Who are you?

All people are unique but not all know or find it! Talk like that is a little bit trite maybe but all trite truth is correct! I think I am special without big reason, just because I was born, that I am the child of Mother Nature, that I am an artist, I paint and feel myself free, independently, it is my work and my lifestyle.. There was a time before when I felt enforcement from people who didn't feel happy and tried to do this to people round about, to upstage, to do much harm to other but I am naturally militant and I know how to protect myself, my close people. I don't care what people talk or think about me if I want dance in the middle of street while it's raining or opened the window in morning and roar out my pain, I'll do this! I have my lover, parent, friends who know me, so only these people opinion is important for me! Maybe one thing distinguishes me between majority - my feeling of freedom! Also, I am just a human.. there were moments when I was moody or fussy maybe and other could get ideas that I am incredulous, sarcastic person but usually this first impression disperse later..

It's very difficult in life not to let others mold you into the person they want you to be! It's so true when we grow up we may have parents who want us to be a certain human being, or to choose a certain goal or road in life and will push us, that's not always a bad thing, because we are 9 times out of 10 pushed onto the road to happiness and riches and the right road to success, but we have to find those roads ourselves, and if we are always guided onto the right road we can never experience disappointments, heartache, pain and grief which shape our lives and make us who we are. I have tried to lead a life the way I want to, but it hasn't been easy. I do have traits which I have got by the way others treat me. I am not proud of the way I act at times and the way I live my life, I do have anger inside, I am very suspicious of strangers and I am an island and I am a loner, I do not trust people because of the way I have been treated, and I guess after a 9 year abusive relationship you are bound to be different and probably poles apart from where you want to be and who you want to be in life. Life is a game to some and to others it's like playing Russian Roulette. I am a thoughtful, kind, loving, caring person but sometimes those qualities are used against me. I do have a great sense of humour too which has kept me going and I'm articulate and a good listener. My tutor once said to me Brian you are always too hard on yourself and that is sooooo true. Who needs enemies when I have myself?

hhhmmm - " who I am " I will not tell anyone ! As everyone think himself or herself that none is comparable with him or her - I think so. But people with whom I talk, I deal, I date, or I chat can tell me perfectly who I am and how I am.

Hi JJ. You should know I would answer this one. What makes me unique? I'm the only one like me in the whole world......no one else is just like me. That makes me unique..... What makes me different? The way I look at things. The way I handle myself. What makes me who I really am? I Am is what makes me who I really am. Do I believe people respect and appreciate me for who I am? Hmmmmm - - - I know people who do, and I know people who don't. The ones who don't, don't know what they are missing. Do I wish people really knew who I truly am? Those who 'know' me, know the truth...those who don't, believe what they want..... Do I ever feel like people judge me? I'm not responsible for what other people think. If they judge me, it's because they don't know me. Do they have a bad first impression of me? From my experience - I have to say - Usually, but if they take the time to know me, they end up changing their opinion of me. What is it that draws others to me? I never could figure that one out, but there has always been something that drew people to me. I've always been told I had 'a certain "air" about me. Some people liked it, some didn't. I think I've always tried to have a good personality, good character and integrity. I've never been trendy, but always tried to have a good appearance in public. At home is something different but I always have 'my face on'. There will always be people who will disagree with everything I said about me though.

Wow there's so many questions in here! I think my happyness and ability to role with whatever life throws at me (to a certain level) makes me pretty unique. I'm special becuase I laugh A LOT and there's no one like me out there. I know people appreciate having me around not so sure if they respect me and appreciate me for me. Did that make sence? I feel judged all the time. But that kinda comes with life and especially when you are first meeting people. Good questions. Hope lost of people responded and you had fun reading their posts.

Hi friend,actually i believe my behavior make me unique.my principle make me different from other person.my husband makes i unique.off course i believe people respect and appreciate for me.i think people don't know all about me because i never story to anybody about myself.i don't like if people judge me.i know not all people agree what i do.we all want i same do like them but i already have principle.i think yes people have bad first impressions for me.actually is it my style.