children with asthma

@tess1960 (2385)
United States
January 3, 2008 3:00pm CST
During our family Christmas gathering on Dec.29th my nephew seemed out of it. He is 11 years old and usually jolly, cheerful, rambunctious, bossy, into everything, and just an all around fun kid. That day he kept complaining of a side ache and even got teary eyed. When one of my daughters got to tickling him to make him laugh after he had a terrible coughing spell. It was a deep cough too. And he just layed on the floor curled up in a ball. I had heard that kind of cough before and seen that behavior. I told my sister-in-law to take him to the doctor a I nd said he either has bronchitis, asthma or pneumonia. My nephew called yesterday and the doctor says he has asthma. He had a breathing treatment and they gave him an inhaler and showed him how to use it and talked to him about when to use it. This is one time I wish I had been wrong. I recognized the signs though becasue my granddaughter had asthma at an early age and luckily she has mostly outgrown it now. My oldest daughter, my husband and I all have asthma too. My husbands is due to having COPD, mine snd my daughters is bronchial asmtha. Came about after a severe bought of bronchitis. Watch for those chest cold symptoms and don't let them get so bad that the child is complaining of a side ache. The side ache was actually his lungs hurting and the coughing was trying to catch his breathe. I know most of you would agree it's always best to imagine the worst and take the kid to the doctor after a few days if we can't knock out these things at home. He had had a bad cough for weeks but the parents just assumed it was a bad cold. His sister from a different mommy has severe asthma, developed it as a child. We encouraged him and told him he would be fine and would learn what he can and cannot do and when to take a rest. He's a cubscout and thought he'd have to quit, I told him "no way". We'll just be sure they know he has asthma and that he always has his inhaler with him.
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@Adoniah (7512)
• United States
3 Jan 08
That is great that he can be in the cubscouts. I had rhumatic fever as a kid and they kick me out of the girl scouts because they did not want the responsibility of me going on campouts. Shalom~Adoniah
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@tess1960 (2385)
• United States
3 Jan 08
That is too bad. Well, now as long as there is a form signed with instructions and emergency numbers and the kids have the meds they are ok to join. Disabled children are even encouraged to join. Besides, if I have to and his Pack says no I will go with him and be in charge of him and he'll have fun and I'll have fun. His parents are all for scouting as long as they don't have to do much so we do it for them. Nother Besides is, a lot of kids have asthma now days.
@Adoniah (7512)
• United States
7 Jan 08
It is great to see a whole family getting involved in the raising of the children. That is what families should be all about. Bless you all. Shalom~Adoniah
@elemental69 (1559)
• Ireland
8 Jan 08
Well done for being able to spot it. My youngest son is 15 months old and had been diagnosed with bronchial asthma from the age of 2 months. Our doctor will not give him antibiotics to get rid of bronchitis when he gets it, so we have to depend on 2 different inhalers.
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@tess1960 (2385)
• United States
8 Jan 08
My granddaughter went through what you are describing and at about the same age. By age 4 she was much better and now at age 8 she hardly ever has any problems with asthma or bronchitis.
@reinydawn (11642)
• United States
4 Jan 08
Both of my sons had "seasonal asthma". They were only affected by it during the change of seasons. For the longest time one got pneumonia in the fall, the other in the spring. My oldest had an inhaler for a while. This did not stop them in the least from participating in sports. They played all year long - baseball, soccer, basketball. As they've grown, they've had less problems and know what symptoms to look for. As long as you know what you're dealing with it's usually pretty easy to work with.
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@tess1960 (2385)
• United States
4 Jan 08
I agree 100%. When I was first diagnosed I had a lot of trouble with it but over the years I've gotten to where I can feel it coming on or I know when it is apt to happen. Mine is also allergy related so I make sure I take my allergy meds when I'm gonna be out in the woods. I also cover my mouth and nose when out in the cold because for me cold air can trigger an attack. I've shared with him and told him not to go by what others symptoms are but to be mindful of how he feels.
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• United States
4 Jan 08
Tess, It's a shame for him that this has had to happen; but how fortunate that you were there to encourage his parents on what to do. Will this be a lifelong condition or will he outgrow it? I do hope he can get back to his regual rambunctios life. ~Donna
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@tess1960 (2385)
• United States
4 Jan 08
I haven't spoken to his parents yet to find out how the doctor categorized it but I do hope it is something he will still be able to outgrow. If not, we will help him learn not to limit himself too much but to be cautious of his breathing and not to be embarrassed if he has to give himself a time-out and use his inhaler.
@cher913 (25781)
• Canada
3 Jan 08
as long as he is careful and knows the warning signs, he will be fine. sometimes childhood asthma is outgrown anyways. check out the library to see if there are any books on dealing with asthma for his age as well.
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@tess1960 (2385)
• United States
3 Jan 08
That is a good idea as he has only seen the bad case scenarios of his sister haveing to be on a machine for a time and my daughter haveing attacks often, she makes it seem worse as she panics also. I will go to ghe library this weekend.