gay son

Philippines
January 4, 2008 1:26am CST
i watched a tv game show wherein the contestants were young gays. suddenly it occured to me that what if you have a teenaged son who you think is straight then out of the blue he confesses to you that he is gay? this is shocking maybe and if you were the mom or dad, what will you do? how will you feel?
2 responses
@olaff123 (433)
• Namibia
4 Jan 08
My parents dealt with it fairly well, considering that they are quite conservative. And I suppose they always guessed, but instead of telling them, I just pitched up with a bf. A bit of a drastic measure, but they survived. I think it must be tough for any parent, especially knowing that the world at large doesn't really approve. We can only hope that people will grow more tolerant - but I found that tolerance is an attitude adopted, and not really something people are born with.
• United States
4 Jan 08
I am a young mother. My oldest is 6 so I'm sure the generation I am from influences how I view homosexuality. I would embrace my son's decision. I'm quite sure I would be shocked if I had no idea, but I would not look down on him. I would not disown him if this is where you are going. I love my son and it's just like any dating situation, if the person he chooses is a good person, I would give him my blessing. Now, I hope that my saying "blessing" doesn't bring someone to comment on christianity and the Bible. I am aware of the interpretations.