So Now I'm A Monster Again...

@theprogamer (10534)
United States
January 5, 2008 1:00am CST
Thanks... thanks a lot -_-. Didn't I say if you had problems with me to come to me? I'm not distant and I'm not unreasonable. Quit with all the crap. Just come to me and we can actually talk like adults about what's going on if there's a real problem.
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12 responses
• United States
5 Jan 08
You know what? You shouldn't stoop to their level. I watch your discussions, and although I don't post to every one, I do see that you take the time to make quality, informative posts that make you think. And if this person had to beat around the mulberry bush to say something about you, they aren't worth the time to come up with a discussion for.
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
5 Jan 08
Thanks very much Drknlvly. I had a brief moment of weakness. But still it does tear me, and you spelled out exactly what I was irritated about. It was a couple of other discussions just like this one. Cruel cycle, but thanks to you, Rascalz, Lecan, Bay and others, I'm not lost for long. Thank you so much for the support dear friend :)
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
5 Jan 08
Is this directed to someone in particular? What's happened? Is somebody following your discussions and trying to attack you?
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
5 Jan 08
It was something I observed in a couple of other discussions just recently. Drknlvly has a point though. But seriously, sometimes it can be irritating.
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
5 Jan 08
Like Drknvly said I do follow your discussions but don't post to all. And you do post meaningful discussions. But I feel it's best to ignore such people ...they are probably doing it for the attention and you just go ahead and do what is best (as long as you aren't harming anyone in the process)
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
5 Jan 08
Oh no Pro what has happened again now You know what People are like on here they do not have the Courage to own up or approach a Person You are a great Friend to have and I do not care what anyone says Hugs to you
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
5 Jan 08
*salute* If anything Gabs, you are the best friend here, not just for me but for MANY mylotters. And you know exactly what I'm talking about (er well, most of it, there's plenty of other things too besides helping Terry out, like well...everything). Look at me I'm rambling! Seriously Gabs, thank you for being a wonderful one in this!
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
5 Jan 08
Pro you are making me blush now I am just me lol and I will stick by my Friends at all times even if they have done wrong but I will rectify them in privat if they have done wrong but stick up for them in public lol So I better not ever see anything being said about you as I like your Discussions I am also one that might not reply to all but I do read them and when I have input I will give it Thank you Pro for being a good Friend and please take care there and do not get sick Hugs
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
7 Jan 08
What have you done to be a Monster this time? I will have to read the other responses to see what is going on. Of course to me, I really appreciate all your discussions & views, even if I dont have time to respond to them all. There are people out there who can not accept that someone may have a very different view to themselves. That is their problem, not yours.
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
7 Jan 08
I had a look at your other responses, & figured some idiots just handle your opinions. On the very rare occasion when people do this to me, I usually counter their arguments effectively. In fact I get a bit of fun out of it.
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
7 Jan 08
All I did was have an opinion. Its usually the cause of most of the namecalling or go-around-back and gossip discussions. It's alright Jen, just a bit of an irritation that I got over.
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@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
5 Jan 08
can you fill us in a bit more on what is going on here or do i have to read all your posts to work out what you are saying.is someone here giving you a hard time.i hope they are not .i am going to read your posts as this must be directed at someone cheer sue
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
5 Jan 08
Its fine Sue, I was momentarily irritated by a couple of other discussions and other acts. It happens on the lot. Thanks for the support.
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@pastorkayte (2255)
• United States
12 Jan 08
Okay what happened to you. I really dont like for you to be angry. One of my favorite people here and I cant really imagine you being a monster. I like that you dont always agree with everyone but what happened. I know it doesnt have anything to do with me I am just curious.
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
12 Jan 08
I had an opinion, and instead of coming to me about it, the members made their own discussions with shaming language. I'm alright though as I've stated. It happens on the lot and as others pointed out its better to try and rise above it.
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@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
5 Jan 08
I hope that nobody is messing with you intentionally! I haven't seen anyone trying to be rude to you or anything, but I dont always answer everyone of your discussions either.. I sometimes dont know what to write to some. I hope the person(s) you are referring to grow up and act like adults. It is good of you to call them out and ask them to come to you to talk instead of retaliating with more rudeness, afterall two wrongs DO NOT make a right no matter which way you look at it.
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
5 Jan 08
Ah, don't worry about the answering discussion part Sissygrl, I know where things are on that. I was talking more of indirect rant discussions which can be a bit of a /facepalm at times. Everyone's got a good point on here and thanks for adding yours, its right with the others and completely correct.
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
5 Jan 08
I'm glad you're over it now, the last thing we need is to lose someone who puts so much effort and thought into their posts. I don't understand why people feel the need to be mean on here. It's not like they gain anything from it and are only going to alienate not only the one they're being mean to but all of that person's friends. And I think we all know from experience that friends here do stand up for each other.
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
5 Jan 08
Even on the most controversial threads I post from experience, from what I know, and I also see it from MULTIPLE perspectives. Even then some people try to write me off and there are still people finding glee in skimming what I say and then assuming the rest. *Deep sigh...* /temple rub. Thanks for the support Foxy, I'm very happy to see you here too =3
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@anniepa (27955)
• United States
5 Jan 08
Who did this to you? Let me know and I'll take care of him or her. I can't see what my rating is anymore so I don't have to worry about it anymore! I just found out it's because of my Firefox browser but that's OK, no big deal. Sometimes what I don't know can't hurt me. Annie
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
5 Jan 08
As said in other responses I'm over this one. People gossip on mylot all the time. I just thought of this one after seeing a couple of unusual discussions and responses. Then again, it could be a misunderstanding (and I know all to well about those). Others pointed out something excellent and in record speed too, so that really got me over this fast. Thanks for the concern as always Annie!
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
6 Jan 08
Who are you having problems with this time Pro? Never mind, don't answer that. I know it's against the rules. I'm pretty sure it isn't me though, right? Sorry, I have to ask. :P Did you send a message to this person to try and resolve whatever is going on? I know it helped with us. :) Hopefully it is just a misunderstanding. Good luck and try not to let it get to you.
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
6 Jan 08
Ooh, don't worry dear Sacmom, its not you!
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@skinnychick (6905)
• United States
5 Jan 08
OhOh!! People sometimes can't or won't talk like adults. Not everyone of course but many out there. Sorry you came across someone like this.
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
5 Jan 08
Skinny it was a couple of discussions kind of like this one (ranting on other mylotters). Drk, and Mooch said it best. After sleeping on it, I'm much better now. I've even placed a real thank you to everyone here; might make me a softie, but that's the way I likes it :) Thank you so much for coming here and lending support!
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@Wario_1 (965)
• Sweden
17 Jan 08
It sucks when stuff like that happens, its boring since i feel you really kick a**. You write really smart stuff and always being polite, earning my respect. Keep up with that and don't give them any chance for them to have you banned, if your lucky then the admin will get tired of their pointless complains and ban them.