How do you know your spouse cheats on you?

Nigeria
January 7, 2008 10:31am CST
well as a married man i know there should be trust, but on the other hand if or how do you know your wife is trying to cheat on.
3 responses
@sutan74 (1112)
• Philippines
7 Jan 08
This is my first time to see a man asking this question. Usually the women are the one asking this.... In my opinion we have this women intuition that we feel when our husband is cheating on us. I guess for a man you can feel that too. Sense a change in your wife attitude towards you or an unusual behavior that she haven't done before. Talk to her first and ask what is the problem before jumping to conclusions.
• India
20 Jan 08
Hello sutan74, I think when a man asks this type of questions, then definately it has some reason. I believe personally, without any reason nobody does anything in this world. So, the gentleman who had asked this question has definately has some reason behind it.
@mcjustin (82)
• United States
22 Jan 08
Yeah, there absolutly must be trust. But as far as knowing if your spouse cheated on you, well if you've taken the time to really understand your spouses feelings and moods, then you will surely know if he or she has betrayed your trust. You will see it in their eyes and feel it in the way they act around you. They won't be able to hide the guilt or pain they are feeling. Besides, taking the time to really understand your spouse will go a long way to preventing a spouse from cheating.
@florlei (46)
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
You'll know when you're wife is cheating on you when you see these signs: 1. She seems to buy a lot of sexy lingeries, without you seeing her wear them 2. She is not hot in bed as she used to be 3. She goes out a lot with her so called friends 4. She hardly had the time to take care of you, the kids and the household 5. She begins to complain a lot and sleep overnights elsewhere 6. She refuse bringing you along to see her friends 7. She does not kiss you anymore 8. She hates you and blames you for everything 9. She leaves the kids with their nanny most of the time 10. She suddenly becomes too close to her male friend