the friend you thought true to you, told your deepest secret to others

WOW! This is just crazy! Again, as I said in another post you wrote, i'm sorry that you've been put in a situation like this, especially by someone whom you trusted and cared about like a friend. It's obvious that nothing this girl can do can justify her actions, and you should defintely not forget what she did. however forgivness is better to give, than to hold a grudge forever. what goes around comes around, and she will get hers, and it is not up to you to make her pay for what she did. you are a strong person though i can tell, and you will make it through. i'm just so sorry:(.

Mmm... sorry to hear that, as it is always sad to be dissapointed by someone you thought was your friend. Anyway, I must say you are kind of lucky... now you can certainly be sure that she is no longer your friend and that maybe she never was a good friend of yours, because of what she´s done. Just be calm, as you did nothing wrong. STop speaking to her unless she gives you a very very good reason for doing that, and remember always to forgive but never to forget!! Greetings

I think nobody should trust any freind like this. did not you get any indications about it.I have stopped believing in my freinds. I generally do not disclose much to them.

If I were you and if it was really my deepest secret, then I'll definitely confront her, if not slap her. The fact that you entrusted her your "deepest darkest secret" means that she should have kept her mouth shut and be a real friend to you by not telling anybody else. But what's done is done. You learned a very valuable lesson but what about her? You should definitely say something to her so that she'll realize her wrongdoings and that she won't do it again to others hopefully. It is definitely easier to forgive and forget. So I suggest that you say all you want to say to release what you are feeling right now. Maybe your anger, regret, sadness, whatever. As long as you she knows what she did was wrong. And of course, she broke your trust and I don't think you'll be able to trust her or even have the same relationship with her again after what she did.

I have a friend who had a bestfriend since they were young. her bestfriend lives near their house so they see each other everyday. she shared her secrets to her bestfriend. until one day they had a sort of misunderstanding which she thought they could talk it out and patch up things. the next thing that happen was her boyfriend break up with her because of nasty rumors against her. she took an effort to trace where these rumors started and found it was from her bestfriend. what hurt her most was that some things were not true. she believes in the saying, your bestfriend is your worst enemy.

Good friends are hard to find.Forgive but never forget.Never say or write down anything you don't want repeated.If you want to teach them a lesson try a little disinformation.Embarrassment is a good teacher!

Im so sorry for that,, sometimes friendships is not tested until you get the hardest one and you will know which is the real friends..i've been there too...

well sweety..im so sorry to hear abotu your recent back stabbing..ughh!! soo many people out there we cant trust..and i have been ther as well..thats why i only keep 3 close friends that i have trust with all my heart and know they have never repeated anything..and the ones that have i ditched as friends ORRR..keot them as acquantance friends and never told any kind of seret or anything personal about me..those people are npt ur friends hun..they are out to make drama and trouble..if it was a serious secret u didnt wanrt ANYONE TO KNOW..i would ditch her as a friend..but thats me..that was just wrong on sooooo many levels..im sorry:(

i just remembered a song from george michel time can never mend a careless whisper from a dear friend if i ware u i would never talk to her again

I just told someone a secret and now I'm worried hahaha this is why I usually keep stuff to myself!