January 9, 2008 12:35am CST
I've had enough of gossips about me. I was trying not to involve the other girlfriend, but as it is, there's no helping it. I did not hurl slights her way, but she did three times. She deliberately made me feel bad because she was very jealous. I know how it feels, but that's not helping the situation. I let those three incidents go because I don't like confrontations. Nobody does. Why can't she ask her boyfriend what the real score is, and settle this matter once and for all? I'm tired more than anyone. I'm tired because of my poor state of health and the situation. Nobody likes to be in my position. That's why I'm giving. I'm trying to let go of all this, so I can rebuild my life away from trouble.
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@Sissygrl (10914)
• Canada
9 Jan 08
I'm not sure about your situation, but i would do the same thing if there were people involving me in their drama, or re-onvolving me in their drama. I would walk away and never look back. Just ignore them and keep to myself. make some new friends, and move on with life. I don't know if that pertains to your discussion any as you didn't give many details. But i hope that helps, or reassures you ;)
@suspenseful (40312)
• Canada
9 Jan 08
I do not think that she is jealous of you. I watch the Judge shows, and that is usually what they say. She probably misunderstand something you said to her the wrong way. It would have helped if you asked her about why she is talking about you so that you could have avoided a major spat. Tell her that there was nothing between you and her boyfriend (if that is what it was). If it is something else, tell her that you are not that type of person and that she should not spread rumors about you. If you cannot because doing so would make you sick, I would say forget about it, and move on. Try to avoid her.
9 Jan 08
I know how you feel. Recently people here have been ignoring me and I don't know why, I have heard from someone saying that it isn't me but it sure feels like it. I really can't be bothered attempting to find out, so I'm pretty much doing as you are and plan to move away from the mess. People just don't ignore without reasons, least mine are valid. :) ~Joey
@rsa101 (31722)
• Philippines
9 Jan 08
I really did not get the whole picture but it looks like your in a situation of third party? Well being in that situation is really hard but as you've said it you're giving in favor of the other party. I think that is just fine and you're right the guy should have done something to prevent this from happening and yet he did nothing so its better you dump him for not doing so. He does not deserved your love for putting you in this kind of situation.
@academic2 (7005)
• Uganda
9 Jan 08
Am sorry that even with your bad health condition, some one is out there trying to stress you over something you have had no role to play-dont let anybody aggravate your health conditions, people are sinister and often, they mean no good-could she be stressing you deliberately to wosrsen your sickness? Please jackie, play this cool, let her look the real fool, if you confront her, she will make a scene and probably drag you into the mud for no good reason, ignore her, the truth will set you free
• United States
9 Jan 08
Jackie, I am sorry that I don't understand your entire situation; but it sounds as though you are involved with someone that just doesn't want any help or advice from you. I would think that she is just going to have to learn on her own - the hard way. As for you, I think perhaps you should step away from the entire scene and try to forget about it altogether. ~Donna