love???

@naty40 (35)
Philippines
January 10, 2008 11:46pm CST
how can somebody tell that he/she is already in-love??? how can somebody prove that it is really love that he/she feels for someone and not just any ordinary emotion???? i am confused right now??? i don't know what to tell him....
3 responses
• Pakistan
11 Jan 08
its very difficult to prove. we cannot prove pain, eomtions, feelings, even god. its only by sacrifices over a period of time that u can prove it to him. i feel sorry for u.
@naty40 (35)
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
i just can't easily give my trust to anybody especially when we talk about relationships..... he is always telling me that he loves me....but then deep inside me there still lies doubts.... but anyways, thanks.....
• Pakistan
12 Jan 08
but do u think that doubts are natural. they should be set aside to some extent
@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
15 Jan 08
Learn to speak the language of Men. Often times they a re saying I love you loud and clear but we as women just do not see the signs because our language of love is different than that of Men. My boyfriend of over 4 years and now Fiancee recently bought me a flashlight for my car that you charge by changing a handle so I will never be in the dark if I were to break down. Translation: I love you and I want to keep you safe. Every day Men DO things when they care about you that as a female you may not see as them saying "I love You" but the meaning behind their actions say it loud and clear. I can tell you if you expect a man to show you he loves you every day you are asking way too much, a man can love you with his whole being and not show it. Some men aren't really good at expressing the love that they have for you, and some men just aren't as romantic as other men. I know my fiancee loves me by the way he is with me, the way he looks at me and even though I don't need it he protects me; start paying attention to this guy and you may see things that you didn't notice before because you were too busy wondering if he loved you. Sometimes you may have to step back and look a little harder at the situation to find the result. For the most part if a guy didn't love you somewhat he wouldn't be with you. Also, you might just have to sit him down and flat out ask him and if his answer isn't what you were looking for you may have to decide if this is the relationship for you. All the best.
@jona06 (78)
12 Jan 08
it really is difficult to tell if somebody is already in-love....it takes time.... and that you will also need to sacrifice....