Annoying spouse

@neelygal (1022)
Bahamas
January 11, 2008 12:30pm CST
Does your spouse ever annoy you and you just want to strangle them?Every day when I ask my husband what he wants fo dinner he always says he dont know,whatever.Well guess what I dont know how to cook that,so I get annoyed and pissed of with him.What does your spose to annoy you?How do you handle it?
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
11 Jan 08
I thought I was the only one whose husband says it does not matter what we have for dinner. I think all men are like that. They want us to guess what they would really like. Then when they see what we made, then they start complaining and if it is soup, they are the ones who find the bay leaf in it, or some how get the plate with the spice in it that they do not like. Oh and did I tell you about leaving the toilet seat up?
@neelygal (1022)
• Bahamas
27 Jan 08
Oh yes I have the toilet seat problem at my house too,only I have it times three.I have two sons that do it also.I get so angry with that.One night I went into the bathroom and didnt turn on the light because I didnt want to wake my husband up and of course he had left it up and I didnt know.I fell in and bo oh boy did I curse him when I got back into bed.Since then he hasnt been quite so bad about doing it but he still will do it from time to time.
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
11 Jan 08
My husband snores like nobody would believe. It's so bad I tried ear plugs, touching his feet, putting his pillow over his head, talking loud, coughing and nothing works. If I was watching tv, had to turn up the volume and suddenly his snoring was even worse. It was like he was competing with the televisionn and was sound asleep. I finally had to learn to get to sleep before him or sleep in another room. The shower doors also have to be in a certain position. His dad was like that so am assuming he learned it from home. I want the doors open so air can circulate and dry out the shower so we don't have mold. He closes them so the water simply hangs out in the lower part of the shower. That creates mold or makes me have to caulk the shower fairly often.
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@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
26 Jan 08
My husband DID the same thing so I made him "whatever" one time. He never said it again. Ingredients: Alter to what you have. Pickles – as much or little as you want Pepper – as much or little as you want Left over anything – as much or little as you want Mayo – as much or little as you want Mustard – as much or little as you want Any thing else you might like to add Put all in a pot turn on high till hot. Serve with a side of parsley. Bet he won’t say what ever again lol.
@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
26 Jan 08
And remember if they don't have a hard on make them a sandwich!
@neelygal (1022)
• Bahamas
27 Jan 08
Oh my gosh!What did he do?I find it hard to believe that he atually ate that without complaining,LOL.That is just too funny.I think maybe I should try this,I think that it would work well for me too.I do the sandwich thing plenty when he is acting that way with me,he hates it.LOL.
@Sissygrl (10909)
• Canada
30 Jan 08
As i may have mentioned before.. I am pregnant, so everything annoys me.. I think it even annoys me that he breathes sometimes. LOL no i'm not that bad. But i could write a list that would fill the page i'm sure. Actually in another discussion i think i listed off a GOOD many number of things.. lets see here.. He leaves his dirty dishes around the house, he leaves his stinky shoes in the middle of the doorway, he will leave a wet towel on the floor or bed, he tells me to wake him up for work and then wont get up when i wake him, He leaves his Shiat all over the kitchen table everyday when i ask him to put it on top of the fridge a step away so its not in my way, He leaves half cans of pop everywhere (although this has gotten much better recently!!) Well i think i'll stop there before i get tooo personal. lol. I'm sure these things annoy me SOleLY because i'm pregnant. LOL.
@vera5d (4004)
• United States
30 Jan 08
I think I've trained myself to not get annoyed by my husband. sometimes i tease him if he does something that drives me crazy (like how he always piles the towels in our room instead of hanging them back up in the bathroom) but i never really get mad at him about much. if he doesn't know what he wants for dinner, you should just make what you want and he can either take it or leave it! that's what i usually do!
• Philippines
30 Jan 08
my husband says the same line also when asking what he wants for dinner then looks disappointed after seeing what i had prepared.but mostly i am more annoyed with his baskeball game watching on tv as if i dont exist.you can never get an answer ,a stare,a blink when he is on tv.its ok to eat late at dinner when its game's crunch time but i cannot do the same thing.idk why men are like these but we women love them lolz