Over 50? Please respond.

@Jellen (1852)
United States
October 29, 2006 4:35pm CST
Any folks over 50 on MyLot? How about some over 50 topics?
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6 responses
@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
30 Oct 06
Hey there! I'm an over 50er! I'm an unemployed one at that. Getting a job when you are 50+! How's that for a topic?
@Jellen (1852)
• United States
30 Oct 06
Unemployed and over 50...yes that is a hot topic. I might technically be unemployed. I am a caregiver for my disabled husband. Living on disability is not great pay. So supplementing it with online cash like MyLot is one option. I see you are already doing that. One thing about being over 50 online is no one can see your age...and what's better, you have the communication skills not always found in the young.
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• United States
1 Nov 06
Lovingit, I am also unemployed and having a real hard time finding a job. I've been fighting believing that age is a consideration but I'm afraid I'm going to have to admit that it is. I think we should all get together and formulate a game plan for overcoming this.
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@Jellen (1852)
• United States
1 Nov 06
Now that game plan needs to include a cost of living increase for those of us who have lived much longer.
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• United States
30 Oct 06
How about 60? Looking back, I think 50 was great! Now things are much worse. Can we talk about all the aches and pains, forgetfulness and depression? Maybe someone has some pep talks for us about growing old gracefully. Sure hope so. I'm not feeling too graceful these days. ha!
@Jellen (1852)
• United States
30 Oct 06
I will have to defer to my friends closer to 60 on this one. But I can tell you, my husband is very disabled so I have traveled with his wheelchairs, canes, and braces. The physical limitations I am understanding. The need for safety, security, and company, well that is something I am understanding better every day. I attend a Sunday school class of 50+ and it is hilarious. The jokes, the discussions...it is enlightening and rewarding to be in with an older crowd. At times I do feel like a spring chicken and then there at times when history is spoken of and I remember being there. That is our reward for living longer. Memories. We must tell ourselves this when the arthritis is nagging.
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@claudia413 (4280)
• United States
25 Nov 06
I'm over 60 and don't mind admitting to it at all. I worked hard to get there, and I'm still working. To those of you over 50 and looking for work, maybe you can luck out like I did. I had retired at 58 and a neighbor asked me if I'd mind helping address Christmas cards for their office (600 of them). That's how I started working again. I have been there 6 years now, set my own hours/days to work and decide if I want to work at home or at the office. It's been great for me. Of course, it helps if you can type, spell, use a computer, file correctly, etc. I've taken over most of the things we do on the computer and let the younger "kids" do the grunt work, like answering the phone, setting appointments, making any phone calls the boss needs, etc. I'm sure there are many people 50 or older that still have to work or prefer to work (like I do), and maybe others can give some good advice.
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• United States
25 Nov 06
Does it help it you type 85 WPM, have an expert status in Word, Excel and PowerPoint and an Advanced status in Access, plus have 30 years experience working as an Administrative Assistant and an Executive Assistant? Because I have all those. My skills are darned near unbeatable and my experience is diversified with a stable history. Plus I have glowing references and make a great personal presentation. It's nice that you are working and enjoying your work. I wish I could find that combination - heck, I'd be happy to find a job I hated as long as it paid the bills.
@Jellen (1852)
• United States
25 Nov 06
Wow to both of you. Makes me feel insufficient with just my teaching credentials. Employers who overlook the older crowd because of health concerns are missing a bet. The younger ones have much to learn from their seniors, especially when it comes to communication skills, work ethic,discerning character, and making the boss look good.
• Janesville, Wisconsin
17 Nov 06
I am 27 but the 50's look like interesting times, you sure had scha - weet cars in your time!. Remember you are only as old as you believe you are! :) take care - DNatureofDTrain
• India
17 Nov 06
my father will
• United States
25 Nov 06
I am also over 50 years of age, and as for topics for the 'mature' audience, I would hope they would also include sharing our experiences so that others may benefit from them. I am a retired truck driver, have owned trucks and driver company trucks, many of you may have purchased products I transported across the country. I was the assistant admin on an addictions help site, aiding both the addicted and those who love them for four years, I stepped down because it just got to be too much for my limited skills to handle. As for being over 50 and unemployed, from some of the people I have spoken with it seems to depend on where you are in the world. In Washington it seems companies value the older worker as being more stable and likely to value the oppportunity the company offers. In other places, it seems to be easier to hire employees on what we used to call 'young and dumb' in the trucking arena. We called them that based on the simple fact that the younger new drivers seemed to think there was romance on the 'open road'. As for the other proposed topics, I think I will wait to comment on them for now.
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@Jellen (1852)
• United States
25 Nov 06
Thanks for all the good points.
• United States
26 Nov 06
Thank you for the acknowledgement.