You can choose who to love?
January 13, 2008 2:15pm CST
I think that love is a strange thing... I think that nobody can choose who to love. And you?
• United States
13 Jan 08
Hello Ishikuro, I believe that you may fall in love with someone, but if that person has issues that you can foresee, you may want to assess the relationship. It's okay to love, but do not be blinded by love. If you are not talking about a one-on-one specific relationship, you can love someone platonically. Based on what I stated above, I think to some extent love is a choice, depending on what type of love it is (relationship or platonic). I hope I am making sense to you. :)
13 Jan 08
hmmm.. i think you won't love someone you don't really like. so, there's a factor of choice there. there are just things that will hinder you to be with the person, but you would still love him or her. then, it would be your choice not to be together. but you can't stop the loving feeling. but you can learn to suppress it and eventually it would fade away or you would find someone else to divert the feelings to.