Called Him Too Many Times?

United States
January 15, 2008 12:14pm CST
called the guy I have been dating 7 times in a row. Just wanted to chat and had been sick. He got mad and holding a grudge against me now. Why can't he understand it was a mistake and I didnt mean to do that?
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@rockvixen (894)
• United States
15 Jan 08
Probably because you called him to many times at once. Guys feel very bothered by that. I know if I called my husband 7 times in a row from home while he was at work, he'd be holding a grudge too. It's like annoying someone and your bf feels like you botherd him too much. Let him hold the grudge, and give him time, he will come around. Just let him be.
• United States
15 Jan 08
Thanx, hon, you are very right. A close friend told me to back off and let him come to me. Before this happened, everything was fine. I hardly ever text him and/or call him, yet along chat online. I want to give him space, but since I live alone and don't socialize at work, I feel the need to chat up a storm. Plus, sometimes I just hate getting voice mail. A real voice on the other end would be nice ;) I had been really sick too and on medication. I feel needy and sensitive when I'm sick too. I hope in time he'll forgive and come back for my luvin, which he loves.