My Sister

Canada
January 15, 2008 10:47pm CST
My sister is driving me nuts... she has made my 70 year old mother feel like everything she is doing and everything her doctor says is wrong... ahhh I just want to call her and tell her where to go and how to get there... What would you do?
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
21 Jan 08
This problem is a common thing, before my mother passed away I had differences with my sister as well, after my mother passed away we didn't speak for four years, many things that I feel now looking back should never have been said, just be careful it is a shame for things to happen between family.
• Canada
22 Jan 08
When my mother passes my sis and probably wont speak anyways, she doesn't really accept me
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
22 Jan 08
yeh i know how it can be but do you best to maybe not let it happen, try to even just keep a connection there...
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@Darkwing (21583)
21 Jan 08
I guess she's only doing and saying what she believes to be right. We're all different, my friend, and I'm sure she cares lots about your Mum. I would have a quiet talk with her and ask her to pass her ideas and comments to you, rather than your Mum, rather than cause conflict in the family, which your Mum probably couldn't handle anyway. Keep it friendly, and between the two of you and I'm sure things will turn out better. Perhaps whilst you're there, you could even get her to apologise to your Mum and tell her that she lost her head there for a while and that of course, the doctor is right. Brightest Blessings.
• Canada
22 Jan 08
My sister would just say I'm wrong and that nothing is wrong and then quite talking to me, she's a strange one... she actually told my mother to stay with a counsellor she hated