***HELP***-relationships in family- tell me if i am right or wrong

India
January 16, 2008 1:55am CST
hey from many its happening in my family that i am feeling that my mother is more attached to my liitle brother than me.thats y i have been feeling like an alien in my family lyiny alone at some side of my home. plese help me out with this problem thanks
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@slickcut (8141)
• United States
16 Jan 08
You said it was your little brother so you may say hes the baby right? This is normal in most families the baby always gets a lot more attention.I think it is because they were the last born and the last to be taken care of by Mom..I am sure that your mom loves you just like she does your little brother,he is just getting more attention...My Mom did that when my little brother was born and i use to get jealous and feel left out but there is no need to feel that way,your Mom loves you..Why don;t you just go give her a hug,and tell her how you feel...
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
That is also i'm trying to put in my mind every time that i feel jealous in my little brother because parents are giving more attention in the youngest in the family. Kids need to take care more that the elder. My other siblings also feel jealous on him but they need to understand the situation. We also love him so we need to understand even sometimes its hard to control..
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
I also feel the same. I also feel that my mom set me aside when my cousin is there which my mom consider as my little brother because he grew up with us because his mom is busy working abroad. But i'm trying to understand that he just need more attention of parents because he is still a kid and he need to be take care. But there are still the time that i can't stop my self in being jealous.