Relationships

United States
January 16, 2008 10:46am CST
If you came home UNEXPECTEDLY and caught your mate in bed with another doing the big NO-NO, what would you do?
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6 responses
• United States
16 Jan 08
I have no idea what I would do in this situation. If I had to guess it I would say I will leave because if not I might do something that I will end up regreting later on.
@dramaqn (1990)
• United States
16 Jan 08
That's awsome that you have that will power to leave. Me, I wouldn't leave, but I don't have any fear of consequences though. If anything make them leave. I don't know where you live, but I know in some places you can call the police to have them escorted out because you are the lady of the house, and you called to avoid any dangerous actions that may take place.
@dramaqn (1990)
• United States
16 Jan 08
Honestly? Well, it would depend on a few factors how I'd react. If it was someone we'd been with together than I'd probably say hi and go about my business or join in. If it's a matter of cheating I guess it would depend on if I was in a bad mood, if she was not a potential for me that he discussed with me ahead of time. I tend to have a bad temper, and I wouldn't do anything to the girl, not her fault. But I'd kick his butt. Sure, he's 6ft3in, and weighs 250, but I can, have, and will take him. Never had to go to that extreme though. But I have made statements to girls who I thought were interested in him. Anyway, good discussion you got going here.
• United States
16 Jan 08
It gives you a lot to think about.
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
26 Apr 08
Oh, Hell has no fury...she'd need major medical treatment and he'd need a coroner. I don't do the whole cheating thing...he'd be further ahead to leave me and move on if he wanted someone else. **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
16 Jan 08
I'd grab MY keys and take HIS mustang for a ride! A very long ride. and then I'd come back and face him, and then I'd have a little talk with her!! comin from the south, You don't get mad, you get even! lol However, there is no chance of this ever happening in my house, because unlike so many, my man is faithful, true, and does lots of little things that lets me know I'm at the top of his list.
• United States
16 Jan 08
I'm glad to hear you have a good one, a KEEPER!
@mcjeannie (703)
• Philippines
16 Jan 08
It would hurt me a lot witnessing this.And of course my first reaction would be shock and disbelief.Then compose myself to face my hubby and ask the reason why he cheated and what was lacking in our relationship.Then I would probably verbalize my hurt and my decision to leave him and wouldn't want to be in contact with him ever again. Right now I am happy with my hubby and we trust and love each other a lot.We've been through a lot in our past lives so we treasure and cherish our love that is honest, pure and true. so there's no room for cheating only temptations, and we always pray for our relationship for guidance from our Almighty.
• United States
16 Jan 08
I believe good communications, being completely open and frank with each other is the key. Don't hold anything in, whether it is a question or complaint. Also, you need to support each other.
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
16 Jan 08
I'd be in shock. When I recovered, I'd probably pack bag. Not for me, for him. And ask him to leave for a while. But, at this point in my life my husband is trust worthy. I don't believe that would ever happen. I know alot of people will say that makes me gullible.