would you still love/trust your girl if you find out about this? GUYS?? READ ON
@crazybeautiful (24)
Philippines
January 17, 2008 8:24am CST
THE QUESTION IS, WOULD YOU STILL TRUST/LOVE AN EX WHO BECAME YOUR GF AGAIN, AND FIND OUT SHE HAD S*X WITH SOMEONE, WHEN YOU GUYS WERENT TOGETHER? heres THE STORY.....
Lets say, you had this relationship with 2 girls. 1st is for 8 yrs. and living in the province, 2nd is for 6 yrs. who lives in the city,. both girls knows they both exist in your world,. then since you love the 1st the most, u decided to let go of the 2nd, and live with the 1st and went to her province., So the 2nd was left in the city without anything. Though she is aware their guy left for the other girl,. after 1 month, she met this old friend, and they started dating each other, and they've had s*x. ONCE. during those times, the guy who left her for the 1st, got back from the province, letting her know that the relationship with the 1st didn't worked well, they split up, and they ended up not in a nice way., so they find themselves confiding with each other, and the 2nd girl, told his ( well EX now) about the guy shes with and that they have had s*x and all that. and that her relationship with the new guy went so rocky, because of a lot of differences,. and they end the relationship too,. Too make the long story short, the 2nd and the guy who first left her, got back together, but since the guy knew what happened to the 2nd, he changes, and started telling the girl words she cant imagine he would tell her.. HE cant accept the fact that things happen to the 2nd, that she had s*x with other guy, he went so paranoid that he always gets mad every time, she forgot to sent an sms to him every after 30 min., if she forgot to sent an sms every time she woke up, she will went to sleep and all,.. Isnt it so selfish? I mean, what do this guy want her gf to do after he left her? watch the time flies by, crying for him all her life? not knowing if he would still come back or not?
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@Armstrong7886 (303)
• United States
17 Jan 08
Well first of all it was the guy who left the girl in the first place to run off to a relationship from his past, so if anyone should have trust issues it is the girl. I can't say I blame her from finding someone while the man was gone. If he was going to run off to hook up with an old flame and expect the girl to stay there and wait for him he was crazy. This is a weird situation and I don't think the trust will be the same on both sides so I don't really see anything progressing in that relationship. The girl probably should just cut her losses and move on and if they wanted to be friends then why not, but as far as confiding each other in a relationship sense, I just don't think it will work out.
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@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
18 Jan 08
that guy is crazy and should be left behind and never ever comeback to him.how can he say those things to a woman when he also had previous relationship with other woman,he is not in his real mind and should be dumped.go and get a new and more civilized man.
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@crazybeautiful (24)
• Philippines
19 Jan 08
i hope this 2nd girl find a new and more civilized man.. i agree... =)
@crazybeautiful (24)
• Philippines
19 Jan 08
if only most people will think that way johndur, we'll all be living a better place,. all love... all for love... =) lets just keep our fingers crossed...for her.
@lovespecialangel (3632)
• United States
18 Jan 08
The guy is being very selfish. He left her to be with another woman. He can't be upset because she had a relationship with another guy. The way I see it, what she did while they were apart is none of his business. He has no right to get upset with her. And all of this nonsense about her having to sms(whatever that is) at certain times is beyond controlling. If I were her, I would leave him and find a better person to be with.
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@anetteh (3590)
• Sweden
17 Jan 08
Well I guess this shows why the first relationship did not go so well. He seems to be the type of controlling, selfish b.....in my opinion. He has nothing to say about this, nothing to blame her for and so on.....he has really a problem. And If I was this girl, I would not waste my time with this man. No what so ever.
Grown ups have a history before they meet the one who will become the partner in life. We all do, and we all have face them and accept that we was or will not be the only partner we had. If someone can not accept that, well the person are not worth wasting any time.
Have a great time.
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@tiffanykei (44)
• United States
18 Jan 08
the answer is simple. the two weren't together. HE left HER for another girl and i'm pretty darn sure they rocked their beds too together. so why should it matter what this 2nd girl did? shooot... KARMA!
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@Arkadus (895)
• Canada
17 Jan 08
That's outright ridiculous. I'm a firm believer that those kinds of people are the kind that actually deserve a punch in the face. Sure she slept with some other guy, but did he completely forget the part where he dumped her? And seriously, as if he didn't sleep with the other girl before getting back with her... double standard anyone?
