Do People Like You?

@densky12 (164)
France
January 18, 2008 7:34am CST
How would you know if people likes you? According to a quiz... I'm very well liked, and many people admires me. I'm friendly, well mannered, and fun to be around. Of course, I'm not perfect... but that's okay. My friends are usually willing to accept me for who am I. I hope so.. What People Don't Like About Me: People don't like that I put others down and like to gossip. They are worried that I also gossip about them. (Oh well, about the gossip thing, my friends are the ones who gossips. And of course as a group conversation, I also join sometimes, as our past times.) People don't like that you seem unnatural and stiff at times. Maybe sometimes I give off an impression of being standoffish or fake. What People Like About Me: People like that I can defend what I believe in calmly and rationally. I can stand my ground and gain respect. People like that I take time to get to know them and make a connection. I make people feel important. People like that I take responsibility for my actions and admit my mistakes. They appreciate my maturity. Is this true? I guess some are really true..but others? Maybe..I don't know..
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4 responses
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
19 Jan 08
Most of the people I knew didn't like me, the first time they saw me because they thought I was a snob. I don't easily talk with them, I only stay and chat with them for a couple of minutes and then look for a reason so I can exit the scene!LoL But after quite a few acquaintances, learning few facts about one another, we learn to gt along and even found out that we do have the same interests in life. They also found out that I love to sing, knows how to play a musical instrument (which is a guitar) and some of them only knew a few. But I know more than them, so whenever we have time to get along, they would ask me to share to them some of the songs I knew and then we all sing it with glee!;D As of now, we all became good friends and we all treat each other more than just a brother..
@densky12 (164)
• France
19 Jan 08
oh really? that's great! thanks for the response! You must not really judge a book by its cover. Before saying bad things to others, know them first..just like in your situation, at first they think that you're snobbish but when you started you talk everything changed.
• China
19 Jan 08
To be frank, I am quite popular with poeple around me.They can always find a good listener in me. i think this is why they all like me. i'd most like to share my feeling with ohters, on the other hand,i am eager to help those o who are bothered by something unhappy out. Morever,I think to treat others with your true heart will gain you back a warm heart!
@densky12 (164)
• France
19 Jan 08
you're a good listener? that's good! i'm pretty sure that a lot of people likes you. thanks for the response!
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
18 Jan 08
If they talk well of me behind my back then I know they like me-some even can come and tell you directly what others are saying, then I really get get to know
@densky12 (164)
• France
18 Jan 08
thanks for the response!
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
18 Jan 08
I seemed to be well liked although I have very strong opinions, i do care about people and I am exceptionally honest, I try to treat people the way I would like to be treated and I like to help people so I would say except for a few people who don't like my strong stance on certain things I would say I am very well liked.
@densky12 (164)
• France
19 Jan 08
that's right. you really must treat people the way you would like them to treat you. just like what the golden rule says..."Do unto others what you want others do unto you." thanks for the response!