Do you know someone with Cancer?

@ecogal (522)
United States
January 18, 2008 9:14pm CST
If so are they a friend? Family member? What is the best thing you can do for someone with cancer? Someone I know has it and I'd like to know more about it.
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@cdejac (98)
• United States
20 Jan 08
My husband passed away 3 weeks ago today from Stage IV Lung Cancer. He was 71 years old. When he was diagnosed in late July, 2007, it had already metasticized to lymph nodes, liver and then the bone. He went thru radiation and chemo but the cancer, once in the lymph nodes makes it very difficult to recover. Ultimately, the lymphatic spread of the lungs took over and was very aggressive. Go to OncTalk and you will have a lot of support from Dr. West and the rest of the forum. Good Luck and enjoy every minute with your loved one. cdejac
@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
20 Jan 08
I am so sorry to hear of the lose of your husband - it has to be a difficult time for you but how wonderful that you are able to take your experience and use it to help others. I am bookmarking this site you recommend to pass on to others who may benefit from it. Thank you.
@cdejac (98)
• United States
20 Jan 08
yes, if I can help others, I would be glad to help. Thank you for your condolences and support. cdejac
@ecogal (522)
• United States
23 Jan 08
I am so sorry for you loss. Feel free to send me an email if you ever need to talk.
@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
19 Jan 08
I'm sorry to hear this, I don't personally know anyone with cancer but last year while researching for one of my writing assignments I learned there are a lot of online support groups for people with cancer - possibly one of those could help you if you don't get it here.
@ecogal (522)
• United States
19 Jan 08
Thanks byfaithonly!
@ecogal (522)
• United States
23 Jan 08
Thank you for the website. I will use it.
@cdejac (98)
• United States
20 Jan 08
Go to OncTalk. It is a forum for cancer patients and caregivers. Dr. West is an oncologist that actually answers any questions that you may have. It is a wonderful place for support. cdejac
• Australia
19 Jan 08
My mom lost her battle to cancer last June - she had secondary cancer from her original cancer but the original cancer came back after 5 years & that's what killed her. My husband's uncle also has cancer & hasn't got long to live... to find out more about the cancer, you'd need to know what type it is...My mom had colon cancer & my uncle-in-law has skin cancer
@ecogal (522)
• United States
19 Jan 08
I am so sorry for your loss. My friend hast brest cancer. She recently found out. She is going through kemo (sp) and has lost most of her hair.
@david2005 (798)
• Canada
4 Feb 08
I know someone that has lung cancer and it hurts a lot knowing that there is a good chance that the person is going to die and I hope that someday they can find a cure for it cause so many innocent people in the world die every year because of it.
@ecogal (522)
• United States
4 Feb 08
I'm sorry. It would be wonderful if they could find a cure.