true friends?

Philippines
January 19, 2008 2:18am CST
How do we know if he/she is true friends? In this differents world, we will never knew who is true and fake. This are many situation that this two words cant never explain by myself. Honeslt, there are many times that which is the best person in mmy whole life is the one who hurt me much. Lat December, my bestfriend had a suitor, then I'll never knew that the person who couorting her is my friend also. Accidentally, we were see each other at the home of my bestfriend and then at that time, my friend also who is courting my bestfriend is here. I was shock when I see him.. Later on, I ask me if what he is doing at the house of my bestfriend, then lately he told me the truth.. We make an agreement, actually it is not an agreement, I helped him to make my bestfriend would be him girlfriend. I am the one who arranged their date and then later on, they become bf/gf. Afterwards, we have a troubled of my friends.
3 responses
solace_eyes
@solace_eyes (30)
• Philippines
20 Jan 08
actually,u can easily know if ur friend is fake or not.one is try to observe her or him.u will know if his or her is sincere with all her/his heart..it doesnt mean that if she didnt tell u that ur friend is courting her,perhaps she have her own reason and its valid reason why she doesnt tell u.or for her,she thought that its not important to tell that kind of event in her life...although they said that true friends doesnt keep any secret,perhaps we are intitle not to tell all ur do's and dont in ur life..coz,ur not same ur still different.just respect her for didnt telling u bout that.. im just confused why are u shock seeing them both,perhaps u like ur bestfriends bf..just assess urself..
Estina54
@Estina54 (385)
• United States
19 Jan 08
Sorry, if you are true friends, this does not mean to be possessive. Leave it up to him/her to choose whom she/he wants to date and with she/he wants to be in a friendly relationship. I never pushed somebody into dating or set someone up. There are things that we have to leave up to him/her.
zenmachado
@zenmachado (1617)
• United States
19 Jan 08
True friendship is always reveiled in wether the person is selfish or selfless.. a true friend attempts to place your need in an equal importance to himself...