How do you get you Husband to be more romantic

United States
January 21, 2008 9:36am CST
I feel like no matter what I do my husband is just not romantic at all. He makes me feel stupid whenever I try to be. Is there anything I can do?
2 responses
• Philippines
21 Jan 08
One thing I've learned from my husband is not to expect so much from a guy. I you expect a thing from him, you have to inform him. I suggest you talk to him about your romantic relationship. Discuss with him the possible romantic things that you two can do to make your marriage more fun and full of love.
@Kenorv (344)
• United States
21 Jan 08
I wouldn't be forceful with your romantic efforts but do be forceful(maybe forceful is too strong) in letting him know that you want him and need him to be romantic sometimes. Somehow you have to remind him of why you married him and why he married you. Ask him if he remembers why he wanted to marry you and why that passion and interest he had in you has seemed to decline. Ask him what his expectations of your marraige are now and if they've changed since you got married then find out why. I don't know if there was a lot of passion and romance before your marraige but if there was then you need to find out what's changed and find out how to get things back to where they were. Just talk to him and ask him what he needs to get in a romantic mood. That's my suggestion.