What do you get???

@twasting (195)
United States
January 23, 2008 1:11am CST
have you ever asked your hubby/wife Why are we married? And I dont want to here CUZ I LOVE YOU are we married cuz i clean your house and cook you dinner and wash your clothes and take care of your kids.? Think about it? and ask yourself the same thing "WHY ARE WE MARRIED?
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• United States
24 Jan 08
Are you asking why you got legally married? Or are you asking why you're together in the first place?
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@twasting (195)
• United States
24 Jan 08
really just a lot of reasons I mean i clean the house, cook dinner, take out the trash, take care of the kids, and the dog. Not to much into the whole love thing anymore with him. he has been off the last 3 weeks and has not done nothing in this house at all. so that is the question going through my head this days. :(
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• United States
24 Jan 08
Well, I've noticed men can fall into really bad habits really easily. He probably doesn't even realize that he's not doing anything to help, he just "knows" that you take care of it and presumes you're going to take care of it. He'd probably be behaving the same way if you weren't there. Guys seem to only clean anything if it's either horribly gross, molded and rotten, or if they need something. I doubt he's using you, he just doesn't know any better. You need tot alk to him about it. Tell him how you feel.
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@ebsharer (5516)
• United States
25 Jan 08
duh - ummmm ahhh duhhh
As I am doing the piles of laundry or the sink full of dishes yes I do ask why are we married. But really more then that yes I have asked that before. ME: Why are we married?HIM: (silence) ME: Hello! Why are we married?HIM: ummmmmmmmm ahhhhhhhhhh ummmmmmmmm ME: Ok that doesn't answer my question. HIM: uhmmmm cause I love you ME: what ever Have a good laugh I do ... it gets me through the day
@twasting (195)
• United States
25 Jan 08
Now that i am on my 2nd marriage. I look a piles of laundry and sinks full of dishes I asked my hubby and that is what he said cuz i love you then ok i asked "why do you love me?" Still waiting for that answer
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