Will you make love with your lover befor marriage?

China
January 24, 2008 3:16am CST
People always talk about the topic “make love before marriage or not” special in young people? Nowadays, with the quick development,people’s thought of that is changing ? But also someone holds the opposite view? On a hand , people think that if you love your lover , you can make love with him or her whenever they want? They fall in love with each other , so they are willing to do that? On the other hand ,some people don’t agree to make love before marriage? Because they want to give their “first” to their future husband or wife?They focus on it hardly? As for me ,I agree with the first viewpoint? What about you?
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10 responses
• Kuwait
27 Jan 08
People has its own plan,belief and goal and character, i belief whatever it will be its for the good of the person who cares for oneself.making love before marriage is like gamble. you gave it without any bound and security that you will fall to each others arms at the end..giving the first time for the husband is important gift but its just for the ego of the husband. after the first,, shall the husband will remain faithful to the wife as long as they are living,, i believe that doing it is a matter of love,promises and sensirity..and love of dignity,,
@bbsr13 (4197)
• India
24 Jan 08
Hello,nikki! things are changing very fast and we are also changing our attitude with the time.the young couple now a days preferring living together before marriage and enjoying life altogether freely.but it is not good.it is contrary to any culture.if you love some one better get married and get social sanction for meeting your needs.thank you.all the best.
• China
24 Jan 08
oh, i think the meaning of the young couple is that they have marriaged. So .
@dta_kitty (192)
• India
24 Jan 08
Neva b4.
• China
24 Jan 08
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25 Jan 08
I think this topic is a little bit sensitive. But indeed, modern young people, they are trying new things everyday without caring about the result. That's the truth. Whereas, for the female, it is not fair at all, what if their love ends in separation? It does hurt the woman rather the man. Therefore, even this kind of thing is popular, I suggested that women should consider more about it, and try not to break your heart.
@dreamy1 (3812)
• United States
25 Jan 08
I never planned to get married so of course I didn't wait. I look at it like this...you don't buy a car unless you test drive it first so why would you wait for marriage to see if you are sexually compatible?
• China
25 Jan 08
to me,if they love each other deeply and truly ,and each one can feel a strong love ,then it is ok to make love before marriage! and if one feel that the love is not stable and he or she would like to give their first to his or her future companion,then it is better to choose the second one . but on the balance i prefer the first one .
@kez936 (27)
24 Jan 08
For me love making before marraige is a must, I dont sound to be crude or anything but it is part of a marraige for mose people in this day and age and if you dont like what they are offering when you have married them then your stuick. (i know its not just love making) but as i said before it plays a part in your married life.
@Agent001 (242)
• India
24 Jan 08
Only if I am surely going to marry my lover.Else a great no.
• Philippines
24 Jan 08
My answer is a big "NO".Nowadays,teenagers or should i say the people who are sexually active are taking advantages of lovemaking...How could you say that it is a lovemaking if he or she couldn't wait for the right time to touch you.As their is a say "Love can wait".It is not good to look at when you are young and not yet ready to "do" those things...Make use of it when both of your lover are already stable and responsible enough to make a family.Body and lovemaking is a sacred, we must respect our body and respect our lover...If you love him,you must wait for him in the right time at his right age...
• China
24 Jan 08
I'm a little traditional,but for me it doesn't matter whether make love before marriage or not.Because if I want to make love with her,I,of course,is going to marry her as my wife.And it doesn't matter to me whether she agrees or not.I would respect her chioce.