Waiting for Mom to Move Out

United States
January 24, 2008 9:10am CST
Some of you know, my mother lives with my husband and I. She has been with us since March of 2007. It has been really hard. We have some issues. However, she is planning on moving out at the end of April. As long as she gets her disability. She had a psychological evaluation on Monday. Hopefully it went well and she will get her money and be moving out quickly. I certainly looking forward to having the house to ourselves for once!
5 responses
@Mamagee (392)
• Malaysia
25 Jan 08
I love my mother very much. She has been taking care of me since i was born until I grown up and have my own family. If she can do that to me, why can't me? Although she has a disability, she is still my mother. A mother that give me life and future. Well.. good luck to you.
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
25 Jan 08
I know that's hard especially if kids are in the house. Hopefully she is able to move and does well. We lived with our in-laws after we were married a year. They had some financial issues so we moved in with them so we only had one house payment. It was cheaper for us. We were there a short time and I got pregnant. Once the baby was born, it was a nightmare. We were in their house but we paid all the bills for them so it was very awkward. I couldn't do anything right with our baby. We moved out shortly thereafter. We had our privacy back. Good luck to your mother and the move is good for her.
@fianne (1057)
• United States
24 Jan 08
hello. yes, it is understandable. well, a family should stay together and you have your own family. i also understand your mom if she stays there with you. if you are the only one she can run to and that she is disabled, i can make her stay but i should stretch out to her that your family problems with your kids and husband is not her problem. i cannot afford to let my mom move out when she is alone and has disabilities. but i also need my family, so maybe i can talk to them, both parties of what is the best thing to do. good luck to you.
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
24 Jan 08
Well I wish you luck. I don't think my father would want to live me me and I surely wouldn't want to live with him. My mother has pasted away but I SURELY wouldn't want to live with her if she was. LOL It is nice to have the place to yourself.
@lightningd (1039)
• United States
24 Jan 08
While I love my mother dearly, I don't think I could live with her full time anymore. I am set in my ways, and I don't take to change all that well anymore. Good luck to you, and I hope you get your house back soon!