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Philippines
January 25, 2008 5:51am CST
Im getting to like him... i know that there are pros and cons of having online relationship... but now i found out something that get me into asking questions about myself and about the man im starting to like. 1. I found out his real age, his 44 and im 25. its ok, its not like im superficial or something, he explained that he didnt expect that we will get this far. 2. I found out that his marriage with his wife is not yet over... or his not yet divorced. his legally separated, he told me its the first step and the reason why it took the divorce many years is because they tried working it out. 3. his wife is still inlove with him. I mean he doesnt want her anymore, since she committed adultery, but im scared that shes there and im half way around the world. i dunno... what do you think?
1 response
ratyz5
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
25 Jan 08
Seeing that the guy your interested in still has responsibilities. It might just be better if you still keep this relationship with him online. Age isn't an issue but the other two points you mentioned are quite difficult to estimate since he's not yet divorced and his wife still loves him. I guess we could weigh the moral issues involved but, you never know what would happen with a relationship that is unstable. Better make sure that you'd be starting a clean slate with that guy. That his relationship with his wife is really over, as in even his wife wouldn't run after him once you guys get together. Just make things certain and sure before anything else.