Do you think helping others really make you happy?

@yiskylee (141)
China
January 28, 2008 5:32am CST
I do, everytime I help one of my classmates solve a problem, or I give some money to some begger, it really make me feel good, so I think any person who is selfish maybe always unhappy, though he may save the money or time, he lose the good mood.
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@piatos03 (393)
• Philippines
28 Jan 08
I have learned that helping others really does make me happy. My mom is a Cathecist, so early on she already taught us how to be generous. I remember when I was young, she would have us go to this Church downtown with lots of street children, and they would line up and we would give them all presents. Just thinking of that makes me smile. I guess when you get brought up that way, it is really easy for you to give. It always puts a smile on my face when I am able to help someone. Even when it is just a little thing. Like this one time, this little kid was having trouble getting a can at the grocery store. It was at the really top shelf, I was nearby and saw the whole thing so I stood on my tiptoes and got it for him. He smiled this big toothy grin and said thank you and I couldn't stop smiling after. I don't like selfish people too. But sometimes you just have to understand them. Maybe it is something that happened to them in their past that is making them act like that. Like someone abused their trust or tricked them.
@yiskylee (141)
• China
29 Jan 08
oh, it's moving, thank you so much for responsing, you help me! I like to make your response my best response. Have a nice day!
@piatos03 (393)
• Philippines
29 Jan 08
Thank you. I'm sure you have your moments when you help other people as well. :)
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
28 Jan 08
i think so because if you can help others, it can make your heart so happy, that you can feel that you did a good thing to your fellow..same here, i also give money to some beggar it can make me feel good too.. also, if i can solve the problems of my friends i'm happy for that...sometimes, we really have to give to others, helping others and sharing things that we have..
@yiskylee (141)
• China
29 Jan 08
I'm thinking of what this feeling originated in... maybe when humans are living in the cave, they musbe all together, and help each other to live through the tough life, so when they help others, it's naturally to be happy.
• United States
28 Jan 08
I think helping someone and seeing the direct result of helping that person always makes someone happy or helps them in some way makes you happy. Especially if you can see the result of your actions right away.
@alnilam (969)
• United States
28 Jan 08
I agree with you. Doing good deeds for others indeed makes us feel better about ourself. It does not have to be a big thing that we do, even the little acts matter.
@yiskylee (141)
• China
28 Jan 08
yes, everything i help others make me feel good.
• India
28 Jan 08
It does make me happy when I help someone in need and see smiles on their faces.
@yiskylee (141)
• China
29 Jan 08
Yeah, I think smile from the people you help is the best repay..
@shymurl (2765)
• United States
28 Jan 08
It makes me happy to help someone. Doing good deeds I believe reflect on what kind of person you are.
@yiskylee (141)
• China
28 Jan 08
The more you help, the happier you will be.
@pkc3000 (1266)
• India
28 Jan 08
I really feel happy when I help some one who are very needy and poor, whether it may be in terms of money, clothes and others. If you donate some thing to others who are downtrodden in turn you will get help/benefit from others. If you spend 10% of your income for the poor people god will return more than you have incurred so please always try to help others by giving money,books, clothes etc.
• India
28 Jan 08
Hi yiskylee, Yes. Helping others make us happy. It provides us a satisfaction for our living. I did this to many people and I live in a proud society which calls me 'great person', infact if I analyse what type of help I have extended - it will be mostly advice. Good Luck.