Why do most women think that all men are the same?

Men from Mars. Women from Venus. Venusian talk it out didn't mean about compliance, it's just to the way to throw out their caging nerve, by talking. Martian heard, and calculating as if his Venusian is attacking him with this word. In fact it's not, after the words spoiled out, Venusian might just feel better and they might be forget they had mentioned it. To Martian: Try to listen, use your heart, not your brain. Use your emphaty and not with your logic when talking with Venusian. Because if you adapt that, the conflict will be pop up. For thread starter, my suggestion is read a book, John Gray Ph.D. "Men From Mars, Women From Venus". Many couples who were around me save their family life by reading this. Only for them who are willing to read it.

i used to think that. i though that all guys cared about were looks. i guess i am ok looking. but i have met someone whom likes me for me. my beliefs, thoughs, feelings. so i know now that they are all not a like. it is often hard to find such a man like this. but they are out there.

I think it would be safer to say that majority rather than all as there is good nad bad in all genders, I think it is because men think, feel, love so differently, and the way they do think, feel and love, hurts and to top it off most men don't even realize sometimes it isn'r even what they do but it can be what they don't do... I think the saying about Mars and Venus is true....

they think this way as they are just programmed to think this way.. it is an easy answer to a complex question. if you get stiffed (or cheated) enough in life you soon get JADED and immune from a lot of hurts that come your way...i learned just to be more selfish as in the end you get the same results... my my...why do people never learn?

It's an excuse to their broken heart... Girls are girls, men are men... They just picked the wrong guy...