Is the fear a driving force or a deterrent factor in

Fear - Is fear the key?
By Bala
@balasri (26537)
India
January 29, 2008 11:02am CST
a person's life?
5 responses
• United States
29 Jan 08
Fear of failure or rejection keep me from reaching my full potential. Sometimes I feel brave enough to lay the fear aside and make the effort required to reach my goal. Hope is the driving force in my life -- it keeps me going.
@balasri (26537)
• India
30 Jan 08
Well you are absolutely right.The fear of getting rejected makes you to perform to your full potential.That is why I always like the famous quote of FDR "We have nothing to fear except fear itself."
@balasri (26537)
• India
30 Jan 08
Yes he said that the 'Fear is none other than False Expectations Appearing Real'. And I like this too, "You can conquer almost any fear if you will make up your mind to do so. For remember, fear doesn't exist anywhere except in the mind." - Dale Carnegie
• United States
30 Jan 08
Thank you for your comments. Another person (I think Tony Robbins) states that fear is False Evidence Appearing Real
@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
29 Jan 08
I would have to say on a personal note that fear is a deterrant for me, I rather take the easy way out than to go along the rocky road of fear, I know that sounds like cowardice but I like a nice, stressful, relaxing path in life, I don't like to choose the roads that lead to fear I will take the next road along to avoid it and will turn back if fear becomes or gets too close. Some people enjoy facing their fears, I prefer to shy away from them
@balasri (26537)
• India
30 Jan 08
Well I think that I can understand that Wolfie.
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
29 Jan 08
When I was younger fear was a driving force. Now that I am older with a family, it's not important and I won't do crazy things to potentially hurt myself.
@balasri (26537)
• India
30 Jan 08
That is one of the advantages of becoming old I think.
@zeloguy (4911)
• United States
29 Jan 08
Only in two occasions. 1. I am half way around the world and don't know the driving customs. Morocco was crazy. Where one person is supposed to be turning there will be three lined up. And this is the norm. They know the... unsaid rules, I don't. 2. If you have to drive on the left. England, Jamaica, British Virgin Islands and a couple more countries drive on the left. No way am I driving where they drive the wrong way.
@balasri (26537)
• India
30 Jan 08
Ha ha ha.A great response on drive.
@zeloguy (4911)
• United States
30 Jan 08
Try to do what I can to keep it light around here.
@balasri (26537)
• India
30 Jan 08
I will try my friend.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
29 Jan 08
It all depends on the person. You can use fear to push you forward or hold you back.
@balasri (26537)
• India
30 Jan 08
Yeah .Different people react to the emotions in different ways.