Have you ever felt like giving up on your dreams because things were not ......

United States
January 29, 2008 9:56pm CST
Have you ever felt like you were wasting your time because things were not working out for you, have you ever been in a situation where you felt like you would never get out of or things will never get better, have you ever been living with someone that you hate and you felt like you would never get away from them person, how can you make yourself feel better if you are in a situation like that?
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• Philippines
30 Jan 08
this is constant in my life. i always feel like giving up. i would always feel like my life is stagnant. but something would always happen -- like God would send me an angel to remind me that my life is just the way he planned it to be. and that i must remain patient and just continue with the endeavor i am currently at.
• United States
30 Jan 08
I understand what you are saying, I feel the same way at times and I want to just give up, like the type of career that I want in my life people don't have faith in and they tell me that it will never happen and it is hard when your family don't even have your back, but I believe that I will get that career that I want, but I want it now not 8 or 10 years from now and my problem is I don't have patience I want everything now that's one of the reason why I feel like giving up at times because things are taking too long to come, thanks for replying
• Philippines
30 Jan 08
im soooo with you. it's hard to go on when people (even those close to you) thinks that you're just bumming around. they don't know what you've been into and all they do is get u down when all u wanted is to be given a chance to prove them that you can make something for yourself, by doing it your way
• United States
30 Jan 08
like my family gets on my nervous because I don't want a normal job, I want a job that they think I will never ever get, like I want to open my own business one day and I want to be a writer but they always have something negative, but I know I will be a writer one day because in a couple of months the book will be out, they better not come asking me for money if I ever blow up, thanks for replying
@MsEddie86 (234)
• United States
19 Mar 08
you cant make urself feel better in a situation like living with someone u hate unless u get out of the relationship.start puttin some money to the side and when u have enough get ur own place and separate from that person. it seems like from the way you have typed this statement u are at a low point in ur life and this person has dragged u there. i think you should get out of the relationship and start doing for you and even if you can get away from the person start doing for you. carry out ur dreams you have dont be worried about the other person cuz i'm pretty sure they are living everyday to the fullest while ur catering to them no it shouldnt be that way they should cater to your needs and i think u should let that be known and if they dont like it boom ! theres your way out fo this horrible relationship that has u feeling so sad and down
• United States
22 Mar 08
thanks for replying i appreciate it
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
30 Jan 08
Not in a personal relationship. I avoid binding and strict personal relationship with anyone. If these people try to bind me, I will do anything to get out. They will have to let me go or they will be sorry. A loving and caring relationship doesn't hurt or kill you inside. I was never in this kind of relationship because I didn't let myself fall into it and stay. I made mistakes too and ended the relationship as soon as I could. But you know that it is never too late to leave that kind of relationship. If you don't have kids, you still have yourself that you owe your happiness to. I don't think you can feel better if you stay, but that's just my opinion.
• United States
30 Jan 08
I agree with you, I will never feel better if I stay, but it hard to leave when you don't have money to get out and get your own place but thanks for responding I appreciate it