What's the best: getting married or buying a bicicle?

@zorzon (71)
Brazil
February 1, 2008 6:22am CST
Well, I've been with my girl from three years already. I love her, but I still enjoying living at home. i have no courage of getting engaged and start living on my own. So, what do you think is best: keeping on living this way or getting married and be assigned to a failure marriage, in pooverty or worst? Does love really solves all problems? Even the financial ones? tell me what do you think.
2 responses
@bunmi2501 (465)
• Nigeria
1 Feb 08
Love is the greatest thing! If you have to get married and be happy however, you need a source of income, you need to work. Work comes first before marriage and you cant just continue to live the way you are living now, you need to take on responsibility, that is one factor of being a man.
@zorzon (71)
• Brazil
1 Feb 08
that's what I think too. By the end of this year, I'm going to get my degree, and I've been trying to earn an amount of money enough to keep things running. Sometimes I'm put under pressure by people who keep one asking: have you mariied yet? I choose not to reply. I hope we can find a nice source of income as soon as possibly. After all, getting married with a person you like does not seems to be so bad after all. For know, I'll choose to buy a bicicle. That I can afford. See you!
@janet_mv (33)
• Philippines
1 Feb 08
Well,i think its not yet your time to settle down cause you have still doubts within you.For me, if you love someone you are willing to face all the trials in life with her/him.You dont care how heavy that be..what matter most is your with Him/her completely..
@zorzon (71)
• Brazil
1 Feb 08
Are you married? If so, how is your marriage runnig? i'd like to know how thigs are going nowadays. My grandparents are still living happylly after those past 49 years, but my parents aren't. They divorced. Maybe that's why I´m a lil insecure...