How can a person develop a TRUST???

February 2, 2008 3:46am CST
i wanted to ask u people that how can 1 develop TRUST on some one??? what will be the clues that will shows that the person wahat is saying is true n saying from the core of his/her heart....because i have a problem i DONT trust any one i dont know y but i think its my drawback is it ???help me.....
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• Canada
7 Feb 08
Trust is a very delicate things. While building it one must have a near flawless relationship. Afterwards one must be very careful of how they cherish that trust as it can change due to anything. It may not be broken but the secnd that trsut is hurt it can never be fully repaired to what it was before.
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2 Feb 08
Trust can only come with time. Nobody trusts anybody immediately, but in time, as someone proves themselves worthy of your trust you will give it. The hardest part is this requires patience.
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@Liasonfan (1702)
• Canada
7 Feb 08
Ok, so this is a fair question. To develop trust in somewhat you have to get to know them a bit, which doesn't really happen over night, but anything worth having is worth waiting for like friendship trust and love. Honesty plays a big role in whether you trust or not. Someone who would lie to you would not be very trustworthy. Also dependability. Having someone you can depend on helps them to be trustworthy as well. It is good to be leery of not trusting someone you don't know, but you need to remember to give them a fir chance too, because how will you know if they can be trusted if you don't make that 'leap of faith' and give them a chance? Great didcussion, thanks for asking.
• China
2 Feb 08
if u honesty you get trust.that is the way! first u must believe youself,so u know rvrrything u do is really good for him or her. then u should have a kind commicate with it
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