Crazy stuborn old man
By zorzon
@zorzon (71)
Brazil
February 2, 2008 5:41pm CST
My grandfather is a stubborn old man.
He has some serious diseases and we need to take him to the hospital at least once in a month.
The problem is that he always disobeys his doctor. It doesn't matter how much we try: he keeps on killing himself, doing a lot of things he should't do and eating food he's forbidden from eating.
Have you ever faced a similar situation? how did you reacted? How did you felt?
Things on my home usually gets upside down because of him.
Sometimes I Feel like tying him on the bed, lol...
1 response
@fadilah8 (207)
• Malaysia
3 Feb 08
is ur grandmother still live with him..or is he stay alone in his house..or u r staying together with him..?
i think he's just a lonely old man...try to attract people for attention...
try to chat more with him..be nice with him...ask care questions like how do u do today..have u eaten..something like that...and then try to advice him to do what the doctor said ...
its just my opinions
@zorzon (71)
• Brazil
3 Feb 08
He dows leaves with my grandmother. She is the one who most takes care of him. But it's not easy to keep things going.
At least he takes his medicine, if don't, he would have passed away a long time ago.
Well, I'll see if chating with him alittle more is gonna help.
After all, a member of the family is always a member of the family, it doesn't matter how they look neither what they do.
@fadilah8 (207)
• Malaysia
4 Feb 08
yeah i sometimes have this kind of problem with my mom and my dad..
they get stuborn,grumpy and all that..i usually like dont ignore it..but one day i just happen to talk to them..like talk nice when they get grumpy, show that i actually care about them..and they started to listen...
and always wanna get attention..like "is this medicine good for me?","if i dont take it what happen" something like that...
i think they just want some attention because my mom n my dad rarely talk to each other..dunno y..
sometimes when they talk..they'll end up in arguments...
so i'll just ignore them..they're acting like children huh
