I MISSED MY HUSBAND..what will i do..

me and my hubby - i love you
Philippines
February 3, 2008 1:40am CST
my husband went abroad.He had a 2yrs. contract there and stayed 6 months now. everyday i missed HIM so much..i admit this is very huge sacrifice to both of us.Most of the night i cried.. what will i do???
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@simplejoy (359)
• China
3 Feb 08
Be firm and strong,dear. Time flies and there are a few ways to contact with him,right?You can communicate via telephone,or mails,or internet.You can hear him and even see him through the networks.And pay more attention to your job or hobbies or anything you like,for it takes time to stop thinking of him.Maybe you can fly to see him when you are available. God bless you:)
• Philippines
3 Feb 08
thank you for your valuable advise. well..for me those communication gadgets is not enough to fill my lonely heart..i miss his presence very much..one time, i pretend that hearing his voice is enough but i lied to myself.i miss my husband's hugs and kisses...his presense.. Yeah ur right! divertion is another thing to lesser what i feel.thank you... can u be my friend? i think having more friends too can do good to what i feel now..
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• China
4 Feb 08
I've sent my request to add you as a friend.You can check it in your friend tag.
@Isuru143 (13)
• Sri Lanka
3 Feb 08
I too miss my lovely girl,she is not with me now but I love her,I can't even talk to her in my situation,I will die soon bcoz of that.I don't fear to die.OHhhh wat amaizing thing this is,if she with me I don't have any sad in my life,now.... If there is someone live in Sri Lanka plz be kind to help.But I don't know whether anyone can help me..
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• Philippines
4 Feb 08
oh i understand your feelings..im wandering why you were not able to talk to her? if you need anything just approach me maybe i can help..
• Malaysia
3 Feb 08
2 yrs is very long for a married couples. For love sakes one of you should try to find a way to meet and spend at least a week together, I suggest every 3 mths.
• Philippines
3 Feb 08
hi.. nice suggestion.. im thinking of it too.. But, financially speaking, were not able to do that.. im here in the phils. and his in saudi arabia. so, it wont happen..im here to solicit ideas of what to do..pls. help..
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• India
4 Feb 08
Hi I red your message, as I am a Psychology Student and I studied ur broblem. First of all I'll suggest you to be in touch with ur husband like on phone and if it is not possible then I'll suiggest you not to listen the emotional songs and not to watch emotional movies in these days as you have mentioned that you cried in nights so this type of activities will make the environment of aloneness around you. so try to be busy in some happy making activities and try to watch some comedy movies and try to pass ur time with laughter so that u urself can make yourself happy, and the best way is to be busy in that type of actvities whhich makes u happy and which you liked the most in those days when u were not married. I f u will first be strong and self confident in urself then u urself can sort out the problem. If the above suggested points help you then ok and if some more problem is there then mail me more. my e-mail id is : - mysajid2hotmail.com Don't worry everything will be ok. God bless you...
• Philippines
4 Feb 08
hello. thank you for ur concern..yeah ur right! when i watched sad movies and hear emotional songs it can make me feel more alone.everytime we talked over the phone im not satisfied. its like talking to him for only 1 sec. even we talked for an hour.Then while talking i close my eyes as if hes just beside me.. OH MY! ill wait for 18 mos. to pass. its very difficult in my part..specially i love this person very much... thank you,,,