Dreaming of a mother who left me to take care of her baby and forgot about him
By suspenseful
@suspenseful (40193)
Canada
February 7, 2008 2:55pm CST
Last night I dreamed that there was an exposition done by the University that my sons had attended. It was in a strange city and there were two admissions, a free one and one that cost $10,000 but allowed you to buy stuff that was very valuable there. I went with this woman, about my age, and when we got there, there was this little baby boy about seven or so months of age on this seat along with other seats. Well I had just passed by the things for sale, mostly first tried inventions before seeing the baby boy and his mother had left to go somewhere for a minute.
Well I took care of the baby, and I waited, I took him in my arms and when I put him back to sit on the chair, there were others and I did not know what chair to put him on. Not only that, the others said none of the chair-boxes would hold him.
So I kept holding him, and hours past.
Finally I went with him, past the things that were on sale, but all that was left was junk. I went down a dark hall way and found his mother who (she was blond, not a turned blond due to getting older like me) who was distraught and she had forgotten about her baby and sne had no idea why. I was still holding the baby and then I woke up.
Does anyone have any idea what this dream means?
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8 responses
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
8 Feb 08
I think its cuse you have been posting so much about babys lately and maybe being punished for something that hapened years ago .
That you might have been the mom that forgot and also the one that kept him.
To me you need to forgive yourself for what ever it was and move away from this subject.
FOr as I am thinking you are to old to have a baby but ya want one to adopt. and this might be a sign that you will end up with another child. ( dont quote me) Maybe one of teh boys ya raised is going to be a father.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
9 Feb 08
One of them is, but I do not drive, and I do not want him and his wife to get in an accident and die. Besides she has her mother and her grandmother, sister, and a whole lot of relatives.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
10 Feb 08
I didnt read in your dream of wehere you were driving or anyone else at the place you were at and no I wouldnt want any one of them to die either . That was just a thought.
For it would be that you are to be a grand ma and will times cok=me you will have a time to take care of the baby.
think of that you a babysitter for the baby .
Dont have to be long term!
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
17 Feb 08
I will have to learn to drive first, and buy a car to get there. The bus route is rather complicated where they live.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
8 Feb 08
and this was last night? Strange. Last night I was thinking about getting a tube baby if I couldn't have kids naturally and if I could afford it. We have asked around and our quote was $ 10,000 so that's going to take a while until we can afford it. There is a university where we live, majority people here are students. Nothing strikes about the blonde lady or the baby boy.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
9 Feb 08
I always felt that women who were blond had large families because us former brunettes were more business types, and because we were not the cute cuddly concerned type. When we moved in Winnipeg, they decided not to have any fertility tube baby help there. It is as if they were saying "Suspenseful" is moving here, let's close down shop. I must have been born at the wrong time.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
13 Apr 08
But if your chances are from 1 in a million increase to 1 in a thousand, then it is worth. it.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
11 Feb 08
it's expensive anyway, suspenseful. and doesn't work for everyone. the result is not guaranteed for the 10,000.
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@keepermykitty (2573)
• Canada
9 Feb 08
I have never been good at figuring out what dreams mean so I gave up trying , sorry I am of no help on this ...
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
9 Feb 08
That is okay. My dreams are more or less literal or semi realistic, not the kind you can interpret. That is why I never watch scary shows before I go to bed, they wind up in my dreams.
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
9 Feb 08
I have no idea,it was a strange dream though..I use to have a dream book but i loaned it to a friend and she never returned it to me..My other friend has a dream book and when i have a strange dream i always ask her to look it up..I do believe that dreams have a meaning of some kind....
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
10 Feb 08
I believe dreams are rather sorting out things in your life. I feel as though this dream meant that I really could care for babies, but that I still have the other people who in my early life discouraged me and getting in the way and that mother represents the mothers who leave their babies in garbage cans and I often felt that if I found an abandoned baby, I would keep her or him.
@newzealtralian (3930)
• Australia
11 Feb 08
I think you are thinking about why you didn't have children and that there are some unresolved issues about it there. You should write out all your feelings about what you have been through and see if that helps to shed some light on it all.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
19 Feb 08
Sounds like a good idea. I went through the "I would rather travel then take care of kids," etc. but none of these were true. Then I went back in time, ooooo - to see if it was how I was brought up, and I figured it was partly because I was not encouraged to get married and get pregnant because I had already been pregnant out of wedlock and gave up the baby, so right now I am trying to go back to see when things changed. I have also had dreams about operations of doctors trying to find out what is wrong with my insides and how it was too complicated. Very scary stuff.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
7 Feb 08
I figured it as if I cannot have a baby, that the only way is in my dreams or it may mean that the reason is that someone thinks I am not able to care for one, but I really am able to care for a baby and God is showing me in my dreams that I am capable of caring for one.
@revdauphinee (5703)
• United States
7 Feb 08
(Ecc.5:3,7.
3 As a dream comes when there are many cares, so the speech of a fool when there are many words.
7 Much dreaming and many words are meaningless. Therefore stand in awe of God. )
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
7 Feb 08
I do dream at night. I usually dream of going to church, or a preacher is talking. And I dream about seeing my friends and my long lost relatives, going on a trip, but do you mean that I should have not told anyone about this, that it is a bad dream? \
I did not dream this in day time, it is not a day dream. I was wondering whether it had something to do with what I talked about, my desire to get pregnant and my thinking I did not deserve it, but then that desire came by me finding the baby boy in my dream?
