Friend Vs Lover

@maasha25 (108)
India
February 8, 2008 11:08pm CST
When a problem which is a best shoulder to lean on? Is it a shoulder of friend or lover?
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8 responses
@jolope (988)
• Philippines
13 Feb 08
when you're in trouble, both your friend and your lover should know about it.. but in my opinion, friends listen more to your problems that they are not involved in.. because for lovers, most of the time, they are most attached to the problem when it involves the both of you.. and also, i think a friend's opinion is not biased..well, most of the time, friends try to be objective on things, for you to have options..^_^ they still want you to decide..they're there to help..thats for sure..^_^
@mEisky (825)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
Well,you're absolutely right!If you know that a friend and your lover could really help you,why dont you try to asked for their help,.But im sure Friends know it all.Although LOVERS would do,coz sometimes the only problem with both of you and your lover was the only thing to discussed.But it would be better if LOVER could also know everything..
• Pakistan
20 Feb 08
well in my point of view,both of the shoulders helps us out in the problems.
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@0cctt0 (27)
13 Feb 08
Ambiguous is not a good idear.You have to chose one of them as soon as possible.
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@Annakhan (25)
12 Feb 08
it depends on the problem type but if u fine ur best friend more sincare to u so u should go for ur friends shoulder
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• Indonesia
12 Feb 08
Actually is depend on the problems. But for any sensitive problems maybe friend or bestfriend is more better, cause they can give the objective opinions.
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• Philippines
9 Feb 08
Most of the time its my lover who's involve in my problem.. Thats Why, am more confident to open up my problem to my best friend..
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@jayman32 (267)
• Australia
9 Feb 08
you can lean on more then one shoulder so why not your lover and friends..
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• Philippines
21 Dec 08
depends on the problem.. =)