I love him

United States
February 10, 2008 11:23am CST
oh my gosh. i have this total crush on a completely cute guy. his name is matthew. he's in grade 12 and im in grade 11. what should i do?
4 responses
• Philippines
14 Feb 08
MY Gosh! you ae soooo cute! I was stuck there for a moment reminiscing that time when i was feeling that O my gosh hes so cute moment! lol! Well, for starters you can join clubs and organizations where he is a member, then just be friends with him. Begin everything with friendship and trust me things will flourished so beautifully! Goodluck.
@kitaboo1 (34)
• United States
10 Feb 08
You should start by trying to make casual converstation with him. That should you know help with your nerves so you don't feel nervous and not know what to say to him. Then when you get comfortable around him you should invite him to a movie or something. Just make a day where you guys can be alone and get to know each other better then on you guys day alone you should tell him how you feel about him.
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
10 Feb 08
well I was in a similar situation in high-school. There was a really pretty girl who started attending my school when I was a senior. She was in a couple of my classes, and I talked to her briefly a few times. I really liked her. I wanted to ask her out so badly, but I never did for fear of what she would say to me. Now, twelve years later, I often wonder what might have been if I had just ponied up the guts and took a chance. Knowing what I know now, I must tell you that I think you should tell him how you feel and ask him out. All he can really say is Yes or No. Either way, you are not in the position I am in with respect to that situation. You won't be wondering what he would have said. One way or the other, you will know where you stand with him, and you may even be able to be friends for a while and then date later on. It is also often the case in your situation that they guy is interested in you as well, but he may not know how to approach you. Take a chance and talk to him. Ask him to go to a movie or something. He may surprise you and say yes...
@ohwellie (140)
10 Feb 08
A crush is different to love. You should just go over to him and talk to him. See if you share interests and take it from there.